Joanna:
Sorry you are having so much trouble with your parents lately. Being a parent myself, let me tell you it is not a walk in the park. It is the hardest job in the world. And, sometimes we don't do and say exactly what we should. From those letters your parents gave you, it seems that they really want to make a way to understand your feelings. They love you, and so much can be built on that. What's that saying......"with love all things are possible"........
I hope things improve for you all and, you never know, maybe they will someday see the light. Stranger things have happened. Good luck.
Mrs. Shakita