Update on an old thread.
Buddy is still waiting to be re-appointed. There's been a CO change and the new CO wants answers from the elders. Bottom line is there are two elders who are convinced he's a racist and won't back down. The CO has been nudging the brothers to deal with it.
So I look at my friend and ask, "what are u trying to accomplish here? Do u think u are going to fix everything and then we can roll credits on this happy ending?" He keeps stating that eventually these things work themselves out and all he needs is another brother with some balls to stand up. I told him not in that cong. They have appointed 1 elder there, (and they got rid of him), and 2 servants in the last 10 years. They control who gets appointed and they won't appoint anyone with a different viewpoint as theirs.
He keeps getting stuck in a circular argument about waiting on Jehovah. I suggested as a joke to get re-appointed and then move his cards to a new cong.He laughed but then he went on about how happy he's been spending the extra time with his family. I shrugged my shoulders and asked why he wanted to screw that up.
Anyways he's still fighting this and I felt bad for him. I saw this with another XJW who was serving as an elder and he lost confidence in the theory of this organization being led by holy spirit. I think I see some doubt in my friend now as well.
Well before I left I mentioned that it's good that all these elder appointments are by holy spirit otherwise who knows where we would be in all this.