You can be lucky to have such a loving wife.
My wife treated me as a second class person for weeks and wants to seperate now. Not because I was abusive or a bad husband. Just because I told her that I feel the bOrg doesn't have the truth (especially because shunning and blood). The only way she can live with me is, if I change my belief about the bOrg.
You did very well. Only you know how much you can tell your wife at present.