The doctrinal flip-flops were only a small part of me leaving. I fell hook line and sinker for their "new light" conceptaul bull****.
What finally got me going was the feeling that more and more, I was loosing control over my life and allowing it to be run by whatever was the "opinion of the day" of the congregation and elders. Too many people who knew nothing about me making life and death decisions for me. And when I decided that I needed to go back to school, having elders breathing down my back implying that I was wasting my time.
That finally set me off.