Jan,
I respect your position. I never looked at it from that perspective before. You made a comment I don't fully understand or agree with though. You said something to the effect that if some one rejected your sexuality they rejected you. If someone rejects my alcoholism and in love tries to show me the error of my ways, does that mean they are rejecting me? I don't think so.
People are welcome to be as gay or straight as they want to be, yes I too "have friends who are gay". I still think the bible teaches against it, and that IF one claims to accept the bible as a guide then homosexuality should be rejected as a way of life as surely as adultery or fornication or murder.
No offense to those who embrace an alternative lifestyle of any type. Just my humble opinion, that carries as much weight as everyone elses.
Yeru
YERUSALYIM
There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.
Shakespere: Hamlet