Dunno if LT will trust us two to behave tho! hehe!
He is probably hoping we won't.
Posts by Xena
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72For women: your view of strip clubs
by Paralipomenon ini have heard two vastly differing viewpoints on this subject over the years.
regarding your significant other, would you care if they went to a strip club or not?
some examples: .
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For women: your view of strip clubs
by Paralipomenon ini have heard two vastly differing viewpoints on this subject over the years.
regarding your significant other, would you care if they went to a strip club or not?
some examples: .
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Xena
I don't mind. And I enjoy going myself from time to time.
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When and How soon should I start dating?
by Crumpet inso i've been officially single for just over a week now.
mr c laughed fondly when i asked him in barcelona if he missed me yet and wanted me back.
so how soon is too soon to get back into the dating scene?
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No pets, likely no children, on a diet but cheats, parent friendlyStill Spring Water - 1 litre, Hovis Bread - 1 loaf medium sliced, English Butter, Mushrooms - 1 pummet, Chinese stir fry vegetables, Chicken steaks, Chicken fillets, Smoked mackerel, Loose bananas, frozen Petit Pois, Baby Spinach - 1 large bag, Chocolate cookies, Scottish Shortbread, Free Range eggs - half a dozen, Honey roast ham, Sweet apples, Raspberry Cote D'or Noir chocolate, Mothers Day card.
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When and How soon should I start dating?
by Crumpet inso i've been officially single for just over a week now.
mr c laughed fondly when i asked him in barcelona if he missed me yet and wanted me back.
so how soon is too soon to get back into the dating scene?
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Xena
Not necessarilyIf he has KY-Gelly in his cart, stay away.
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If your mate cheated on you, could you forgive?
by avidbiblereader invery personal and yet it happens way too often, but would you forgive and if you did, how would it change you and the relationship?.
or is it over?.
abr.
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Xena
Cheaters that I know personally. If you forgive you become a enabler.
So based on the few and/or many you know EVERYONE falls under that same general statement.
Oh well I guess the bottom line is knowing what you expect and being open about it.
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If your mate cheated on you, could you forgive?
by avidbiblereader invery personal and yet it happens way too often, but would you forgive and if you did, how would it change you and the relationship?.
or is it over?.
abr.
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Would any of your feeling change if you found out your spouse was with someone of the SAME sex?
Actually had that happen with a boyfriend. He ended up being gay and was using me as a smokescreen for his family. Though he did say I was one of the few women he found attractive. Not sure if that ment I was mannish or really attractive. Needless to say it was over but that was not so much due to the cheating as to him being gay.
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If your mate cheated on you, could you forgive?
by avidbiblereader invery personal and yet it happens way too often, but would you forgive and if you did, how would it change you and the relationship?.
or is it over?.
abr.
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Xena
If someone cheats once and is forgiven, he/she will cheat again.
And your basis for this absolute statement?
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If your mate cheated on you, could you forgive?
by avidbiblereader invery personal and yet it happens way too often, but would you forgive and if you did, how would it change you and the relationship?.
or is it over?.
abr.
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onlycurious you pretty much summed up my feelings regarding this issue. With one exception:
The trust would never fully be restored.
I think it can be, but it's not easy or fast.
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When and How soon should I start dating?
by Crumpet inso i've been officially single for just over a week now.
mr c laughed fondly when i asked him in barcelona if he missed me yet and wanted me back.
so how soon is too soon to get back into the dating scene?
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Xena
Jehovah passed him on to Xena,
And who says prayer doesn't work?
I tend to chat with people pretty much everywhere I go...grocery stores, book stores...I'm chatty like that and I find people interesting. It also makes you appear approachable to someone who might be thinking of chatting to you but are shy themselves.
Shower massages don't replace men, nothing can do that cause they are just so darn yummy, but they will do in a pinch, or two, or three.
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Let Kids see Dub Grandparents or?
by brunnhilde inmy mom and dad love my son, but i also know because of the depth of their brainwashing, they won't be respectful of my parenting (as i've asked them) and will try to "plant seeds" with him.
he's only 7, loves his grandma and papa very much and is easily confused and distressed when he gets conflicting info.
since we left the dubs, we've had a couple different run-ins with my parents trying subtle and not so subtle means to get at my son, or more accurately, get at me.
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Xena
It's a tough call to make.
My daughter used to spend time with my sisters. One lives here and one comes in from time to time from out of state. She enjoyed their company and despite them shunning me I figured I would be the bigger person. We had one "armagaddon" issue which I thrashed out with them early on and then they appeared to let up....then the last time she was with them my oldest sister told her that they shun me for my own good and that one day I would appreciate it. When my daughter got home she told me about it. I asked her what she thought of my sisters comments and she basically said she thought it was stupid. She didn't say so to my sister at the time because she didn't want to start crying (her words) but since that time she no longer wants to spend time with them. I guess I'm glad she was able to see it for what it was and make a decision on her own...course she is a little older than your son being 10 at the time.
Kids are pretty smart and if you are upfront with him about what is going and discuss anything that comes up when he is with them their comments most likely won't have any effect other then him maybe losing the desire to spend time with them himself eventually.