IMO the key is just to let go of your guilt. So you don't want to talk dirty...don't feel bad about it cause it's how you feel and that is a valid feeling. You don't want to have oral, don't feel guilty about it because it's how you feel and you are entitled to feel that way. Once you let go of the guilt you can figure out why you might not like those things. Is it because you were taught they were bad or are they just not your bag? Be open with your partner about how you are feeling and get their imput on how to deal with it and other things you might try that you both might enjoy....the possibilities are intriguing and endless.
Posts by Xena
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22JW's ruin your sex life?
by NYerGirl inafter a year or so of being a "lurker" (since i know some of you despise that word, say, instead, window shopper?
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for the last week or so, i've come to the sight every day and i've learned a lot and also remembered more than maybe i wanted to.. so here's my issue: i've been married for 1 1/2 years, together with this man for 5+ years.
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Things YOU eat, that other people think is weird.
by misanthropic inthis mornings events have got me thinking about things.
i love peanut butter, not the sweet kind but i like the old fashioned peanut butter, usually laura scudder's with no sugar or preservatives - it just tastes better imo.
i put it on everything including pancakes which are really good with peanut butter and maple syrup.
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When I was a kid I liked mustard and raw onion sandwiches on white toasted bread. Then I discovered boys.
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Things YOU eat, that other people think is weird.
by misanthropic inthis mornings events have got me thinking about things.
i love peanut butter, not the sweet kind but i like the old fashioned peanut butter, usually laura scudder's with no sugar or preservatives - it just tastes better imo.
i put it on everything including pancakes which are really good with peanut butter and maple syrup.
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Fried bologna sandwiches.
That is the ONLY way I will eat bologna. And it has to be with mayo. My dad used to make his with peanut butter.
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Why Is There a Seemingly Large Percentage of X JW Jerks?
by XJW4EVR inthis is something i posted on minimus' "looked down" thread, and thought i would split it off into another topic.. so why is there a seemingly large number of x-jw jerks in cyberspace?.
longhairedgal wrote this:.
i know ex-dubs can be pretty bad.
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Xena
I've met a large number of ex dubs from all over the world and have found them for the most part to be extremely nice people. The ones that have more aggressive behavior tend to not meet-up for some reason. and I've found them to be relatively rare. Course I'd venture to say most people can act jerk like from time to time, myself included.
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Things YOU eat, that other people think is weird.
by misanthropic inthis mornings events have got me thinking about things.
i love peanut butter, not the sweet kind but i like the old fashioned peanut butter, usually laura scudder's with no sugar or preservatives - it just tastes better imo.
i put it on everything including pancakes which are really good with peanut butter and maple syrup.
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Crumbled up cornbread in buttermilk
I thought my dad was the only one who ate that. I tried it once when I was a kid cause I wanted to be like him, didn't really do anything for me.
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XENA - please tell me about your Mall birthday party!
by snickers inwithout hijacking another thread... my daughter is turning 12 in april and i'd love to hear about your mall scavenger hunt party!
did you let the girls loose in the mall by themselves?
i love the idea - please share!.
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Let me know how it goes!
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i got a myspace..add me!
by candidlynuts inhttp://www.myspace.com/candidlynuts.
i'm not very good at editing yet but i'll figure it out.. you all add me!
i'm looking for board members that have myspace's so far found one or two..some pages are too big for my puter to load.
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Xena
Feeling the myspace love???
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Things YOU eat, that other people think is weird.
by misanthropic inthis mornings events have got me thinking about things.
i love peanut butter, not the sweet kind but i like the old fashioned peanut butter, usually laura scudder's with no sugar or preservatives - it just tastes better imo.
i put it on everything including pancakes which are really good with peanut butter and maple syrup.
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I like the smoked oysters in the can on crackers. Not real big on the sadines for some reason. One thing my dad used to eat that made me gag is those nasty little vienna sausages.
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Things YOU eat, that other people think is weird.
by misanthropic inthis mornings events have got me thinking about things.
i love peanut butter, not the sweet kind but i like the old fashioned peanut butter, usually laura scudder's with no sugar or preservatives - it just tastes better imo.
i put it on everything including pancakes which are really good with peanut butter and maple syrup.
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I gross Ross out by putting salt and tomato juice in my beer.
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Things YOU eat, that other people think is weird.
by misanthropic inthis mornings events have got me thinking about things.
i love peanut butter, not the sweet kind but i like the old fashioned peanut butter, usually laura scudder's with no sugar or preservatives - it just tastes better imo.
i put it on everything including pancakes which are really good with peanut butter and maple syrup.
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Mix peanut butter and honey and then slather it on warm biskets in the morning. YUM YUM I make chocolate gravy for biskets as a treat, usually at Christmas when everyone is over.
I love anchovies and layer them on my pizza. Also love anchovie stuffed olives!
That's all I can think of at the moment.