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Im a non JW and i'm interested in a JW

by littlebigtown123 in

i'm interested in this girl and shes a jw.

i went to the meetings and i was bored out of my mind.

i can see how the religion is very appealing to people.

littlebigtown123

thank you for your advice and definitily will take it to consideration. I'm going on a date with another girl, perhaps it will change my mind about my feelings, btw she's an atheist.

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Im a non JW and i'm interested in a JW

by littlebigtown123 in

i'm interested in this girl and shes a jw.

i went to the meetings and i was bored out of my mind.

i can see how the religion is very appealing to people.

yeah i heard. I am pretty stubborn. I guess you are right. She has hung out with me by myself before, we were at my place making spinach lasagna. She stayed only for a few hours and seem preoccupied. Actually we spend a lot of time by ourselves. Just first time out of school, and her making excuse to see me. I do resent and hate her a little and maybe she is confused. Anyway we have the same science class together and possibly have a lot of time to study with eachother, but its a wasted break where we are not hanging out together.

i went to the meetings and I found them extremely boring. I couldn't keep up with all the scripture they throw at you. They give you a lot of these little books. soo much stuffffff.

Thanks for the advice I am going to see what happen. I'm actually to the point where I am in love with her. She doesn't want children and I am okay with that. You know how you love somebody when you can sit next to them and be happy and nothing else matters. Well she is only 19. I'm in my mid-twenties. I read many of your advice and strugggles, believe me you guys are in my consideration.

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Why bother door knocking. Use JW.org!

by punkofnice in

saturday as i lay naked in my bed thinking evil apostate(tm) thoughts i heard a knock at the door.. i ignored it.

if they can't ring the bell like everyone else then it's gotta be idiots.. i heard footsteps walking away.

i peeked out of the curtain and saw it was 2 jw's.

littlebigtown123

i opened the door in my boxers before. I still had people come back.

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Im a non JW and i'm interested in a JW

by littlebigtown123 in

i'm interested in this girl and shes a jw.

i went to the meetings and i was bored out of my mind.

i can see how the religion is very appealing to people.

littlebigtown123

I'm interested in this girl and shes a JW. I went to the meetings and I was bored out of my mind. I can see how the religion is very appealing to people. I couldn't careless because most religion are pretty similar. Anyway I went to one meeting in the weekends and meeting on the weekday. Anyway I have a 6 month plan of finding more about the religion. I am aware that JW is considered a cult, but I am interested in this girl.

Here's my story. So we have the same class. We study everyday with each other. I hit on her instantly and she told me whatever we are doing is not a date. Before hurricane Sandy she text me about something , and I started telling her about my life and she was intrigued. Next thing I know is that I am calling her late at night. We would continue to study, but if touch her sometimes , she'll yell "dont touch me" . So i was soo scared to make a move on this girl. Anyway once in a while we would study and she would sit next to me and put her head on my shoulder or my lap, she say we are just friends. One day I took her phone , because she text very often, and she said "Kiss me!" I didn't know how to respond because i get traumatize when she say i get too close. This girl would say things like what you think a relationship should be, etc. She say she only sees me as a friend.

One day I told her I was interested in her and she freaked out, avoided me a little , as far as touching, but things became normal. Finals happened and now we have a break from classes. Some guy was talking to her and texted her that " it seems this guy really likes you" .

Now she has avoided seeing me in person and have been delaying all conversation and limit it to some phone conversations and text messages. Now shes cutting me off from phone conversations. I like this girl. I figure I give this religion a shot, because she's interested in me , or so i thought.

Anyway its killing me, because I feel shes being hot and cold and is trying to keep her distance or placed me in the friend zone, she said shes not interested , but I really dont believe that. We are going back school soon.

Anyway im checking out these meeting and reading all of this crap because im interested in this girl. Yes I know I should move on, but I really like her.

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Im a non JW and i'm interested in a JW

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littlebigtown123

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Dating a JW info

by Lady Lee in

other than telling a person to run:what do you think a person (who knows nothing about the jws) needs to know if they are getting involved with a jw.what would be helpful to them to end things before they get further involved?what will help them if they decide to go further and marry this jw?what challenges would a non-jw woman have if she gets involved with the jw man?what about having children and the struggles that will develop from that?.

if you think of anything else that would be halpful please add it to the thread.

i would like to have a lot of this info in one thread besides some of the great "dating a jw" threads we already have in the best of section.

littlebigtown123

i read all of this. I am thinknig of dating this JW. I am a Christian myself. She said she can't date me and is trying to be my friend only and that's giving me a headache. I'm trying to learn more about being a JW and I am going to my first meeting.