ExCircuitOverseer..
Again I can't say too much, but my friend (who I will call 'Martin') is an extremely wealthy man..so the 'truth' is like a glorious exclusive club with a spiritual lifestyle and no money worries..
But I don't think that is his main motivation to stay in and not see for himself the glaringly obvious facts that the jw's have got is so so wrong ..
He shares a detail with my other lifelong friend, a girl (I will call 'Penny') that I grew up in the truth with and have always stayed close with my whole life..
(We would have got together if it wasn't for my spiritual pious attitude about waiting till I was 30 to get married.)
She was different, became a wild child, went to live in the USA, married a few times, had men when she wanted, rejected the truth, even got me to look at apostate websites when I was so much more naive..
What they both have in common is losing a parent. I noticed a spiritual change in both of them.
They became entrenched and deeply anchored in the jw religion like never before after their loss.
With my former (girl) friend I would NEVER have seen that coming or predicted that.
Now she's super spiritual and has re-embraced the jw's like never before..
My mate who is the co has become the same - super devoted to the cause - in the hope of seeing his lost parent again..
Two friends, two different backgrounds that I know so well - the loss of a parent and then strongly and passionately returning to the jw's with a vengeance is what they both have in common..