White dove her and I have been talking quite a bit..we are going to use my lending policy that I mentioned this week end. We shall see how it goes. I am charging her $5. but what I am not telling her is that I am putting it in a savings for her. I am trying to be positive with her and it seems to be working. I can still see through her lies and just grin and bear it..I think she is long past pointing out her lies to her. She just told our mutual friend that she hadn't received her child support check yet and had just spent a bunch on groceries and a utility bill and had a little left. She called this friend because she hinted she needed some more "suckers" as my friend calls them from her. (pres drugs). (She also owes her $40. still)She said she changed the subject and my daughter wouldn't come right out and ask so they hung up. My friend has a lot of health issues and has a LOT of pres pain pills and my daughter knows this. (Legal)
I know for a fact my daughter gets her child support check early every month so she can't pull that on on me....so my friend and I just stick together and encourage each other to not fall prey to her "charms"..so to speak..
Believe it or not despite the lies etc she does seem to be making a change..or maybe it is just my attitude..either way it seems to be working for the good.
I'll keep loving her no matter what..
Till next vent...lol
Snoozy