I THINK THIS WHOLE SITUATION WITH THIS RODRIQUEZ LADY IS RIDICULOUS. I WAS MOLESTED BY THE PRESIDING OVERSEER IN THE CONGREGATION FOR SEVEN YEARS AND AT NO TIME WAS MADE TO BELIEVE THAT IT WAS MY FAULT BY THE ELDERS AND CONGREGATION WHEN I FINALLY TOLD. THIS MAN WAS DISFELLOWSHIPPED IN A MATTER OF 7 DAYS. AND 5 DIFFERENT BROTHERS FROM BETHEL CALLED AND ENCOURAGED ME AND TOLD ME TO DO WHAT I HAD TO DO AGAINST HIM, THEY NEVER TOLD ME NOT TO TELL THE POLICE, THEY NEVER HELD IT AGAINST ME, AND MY FAMILY. THEY HAVE BEEN NOTHING BUT SUPPORTIVE TO ME AND MY FAMILY SINCE THE INCIDENT. SO THIS CLAIM THAT THE ELDERS THREATENED TO DISFELLOWSHIP HER AND TOLD HER TO HIDE IT IS VERY UNBELIEVABLE.
How very nice to hear such an account, and how nice it would be if all cases were handled that way. Sadly, not every body of elders acts this way, and until they do and get educated the way your body of elders seems to be, something needs to be done. Remember, just because something happened one way to you doesn't make it unbelievable that it could happen a different way to someone else. Local bodies of elders often act differently from each other, and there is a wide variance in the way brothers are treated from place to place.
ALSO IN THE JAN 97 WATCHTOWER, PAGES 28,29 IT SPECIFICALLY SAYS THAT A CHILD MOLESTER CANNOT AND WILL NOT EVER HOLD A POSITION IN THE KINGDOM HALL AGAIN AND THEY WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO SAY A PRAYER AGAIN.
Sadly, what you may not be aware of is that this was rescinded in a later letter to the elders only.
SO FOR ALL THE PEOPLE CLAIMING THAT A LOT OF THE ELDERS, ANOINTED ONES AND MINISTERIAL SERVANTS ARE STILL HOLDING POSITIONS IS VERY UNLIKELY BECAUSE IT HAS TO GO THROUGH JEHOVAH'S HOLY SPIRIT AND BETHEL.
Bethel yes, but not holy spirit, as the brothers in Bethel will admit if you press them. And since many of us personally know current elders and ministerial servants who are molestors, the problem does exist.
I THINK THAT THIS LAWYER IS JUST TRYING TO MAKE SOME MONEY AT THE EXPENSE OF THE BROTHERS WHO VOLUNTARILY DONATE TIME AND MONEY TO KEEP THE ORGANIZATION GOING. BUT WHAT THIS LAWYER DOESN'T REALIZE IS THAT THESE BROTHERS ARE NOT EMPLOYEES SO THERE FORTH THE SOCIETY DOES NOT COVER THEM WITH INSURANCE.
I can't speak for the lawyers, and neither can you. But the problems are real, regardless.
YOU KNOW WHAT A LOT OF YOU NEED TO DO IS PRAY TO JEHOVAH AND ASK FOR THE STRENGTH TO MAKE IT OUT OF A BAD SITUATION AND THROW YOUR BURDENS UPON HIM AND QUIT FEELING LIKE THE VICTIM AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIVES.
Survivors of childhood sexual abuse
cannot do this without gettting help. It's not like breaking your arm. You don't just get over this. If you have never been such a victim, count yourself most fortunate that you won't ever realize the pain such persons go through. A little empathy is called for here.
JUST REMEMBER THAT JEHOVAH IS FOR US AND NOT AGAINST AND ANYTHING THAT IS WRONG WITH HIS ORGANIZATION WILL COME OUT...
What do you think is happening now?