@David_Jay
A human parent cannot be equally used in an illustration to explain an infinitely powerful being with the ability to do anything. However, if we are going to do so, a human father will do all he can to remove the smallest amount of suffering from their children.
Why can't this heavenly father remove suffering from his very creation?
The book of Isaiah describes God's love.
Genesis says we were created in his image.
If God is loving and we were created in his image, how can I not hold God to this expectation?
Let's say God isn't as loving; if so then why is he worthy of recognition?
Yes suffering can have a moral quality to it when you have the power to stop it.
Yes, suffering is incompatible with God when they have the power to stop it and remove it from creation. Yes suffering is an indicator of benevolence when God has the power to remove it.