Y: give the details of that allegedly changed " adultery brings disfellowshipping " ruling.
remember Jesus said, that even a persistent adulterous "eye" will have you regret that in "gehenna. " where their worm die est not"
PS: I remember from the 60s, where an innocent mate had to give consent to a guilty party in a scriptural divorce to remarry.
A vengeful, hurt victim, of a scoundrel, could ruin that one's life, by withholding that permission, if the wrongdoer wanted to "survive Armageddon", wanted wt's favour. a kh wedding.