Hi Oubliette,
Indeed. I'd rather not go into too much detail but my kids are reasonably academic, work hard at school and are creative. Both my wife and I set high, but reasonable, expectations for them. They understand that it's not money alone that brings happiness but being able to exercise your choices and have free will does - in turn those who throw their education away, are lazy and do not have sufficient money often have few choices in life and are unable to exercise free will.
They see the waste in just getting any old part time job to pioneer and then getting tied down at a young age. They both, but particularly the older one, do not like the patriarchal nature of the organisation. I have used this to my advantage as well.
With my daughters both my wife (even though she is still mentally well in) and I have been clear about the hard work and suffering that women have endured for years to bring about the level of sexual equality we have now. We have made it clear that they can show respect for that by fulfilling their potential and not wasting away the freedoms those women bought them.
I am confident that their interest and success in education will be the saving grace. They are free to question, encouraged to do so. There is no danger of them succumbing to pressure to get baptised any time soon and my view is that if they are encouraged to look at WT teachings with an open mind, with critical thinking skills applied they will not need me to tell them it's junk.