I agree steve2, Headache inducing. This is a nightmare scenario. IMO. Who would want that. Exjw doesn't even chime in here. This is a complicated (self inflicted) situation. The younger guy seems to have no dignity. The older guy must have low self worth. The only place I can even remotely stretch my imagination that this is even exjw related at all is the older guys thinking of trying to find his younger partner a person so he wont be alone when he dies. Like some sort of martyr for cult BS. I digress, to messy.
@fulltimestudent-Now, so far that friendship does not seem to have become sexual. But the YP's (younger partner) new friend has been going through a rather nasty divorce, and while there is no sign that he has ever been attracted to other males, he does seem to be very close to the YP, who admits to being strongly attracted to his new friend
Could the red flags be any bigger? Seriously. This is a set up for one hell of a mind screw.
I hypothetically bitch slap them all.