It is a sick and twisted coercion tactic.
co·er·cion
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the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats.
Persons who commit crimes under coercion are not held criminally liable under the law.
First, the Watchtower coerces the parents. The Watchtower makes it known that Witnesses are to raise, that is to say indoctrinate, their children. Witness children have no choice. This is taken all the way to the baptism of the child. Once the child is baptized he or she may now be coerced by the Watchtower. Failure for parents to do this forced indoctrination is met with the label of "unfaithful" or "not exemplary" which results in privileges being withheld or shunning outside the meetings.
Once the child reaches adult years, but still lives in his or her parents' home the coercion continues. The child must continue to obey the Watchtower under threat of being thrown out of the parents' home. This happens once again due to coercion by using shunning as leverage against the parent.
Once the child is able to provide for himself and is willing to accept shunning from his parents the child may stop being one of Jehovah's Witnesses. According to this Watchtower article, the parents should not blame themselves. I whole heartedly disagree.
The parents made a choice. That choice was to be one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Children are not able to give consent. No child ever consented to being raised as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. That was imposed on the child. Child baptism is also non-consensual. The child is forced to enter a contract.
This is no different than a person strapping a remote denoted bomb to a child's chest and telling the child to go into a bank with a stick-up note to give the teller. Then telling the child if they don't do it you will remote denote the bomb. If at some point that child refuses to comply and you remote denote the bomb you don't get to blame the child's death on the child. That blood is on your hands!
I understand taking your children with you to meetings, assemblies, conventions, and in the ministry when they are too small to supervise themselves. Once the child is capable of caring for themselves for a few hours while the parents are at the meeting and the child doesn't want to go, let them stay home. Don't force your kids to read Watchtower literature. Don't force any of it on to them.