okay, i don't even know where to start.
i'm 16, i live in a strict jw household and i know if i am pregnant (which is a big possibility) ..i know i'm doomed to a life of misery.
not because of my baby but because of my family and the isolation and judgement from the congregation.
NYsweet16
i feel sad that you are in need of lots of love and understanding. Please keep in touch, let us know what state you live in so you can receive the help you need, or if you live in another country. I Hope their is someone you can turn to. And get the care you need.
http://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/nsw/senior-jehovahs-witness-geoffrey-jackson-says-church-might-offer-compensation-to-alleged-abuse-victims-20150814-giyxuu.html
Sydney — The abuse was meticulously catalogued. From 1950 to 2014, the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society amassed some 5,000 files detailing sexual abuse of Australian children by 1,006 of its members, who believe only they — the Jehovah’s Witnesses — proclaim the truth about God.
Young girls were assaulted by neighbors. Teenagers were raped by their fathers. Victims were forced to pray with their abusers.
When the children reached out for help, the church’s obsession with secrecy and hostility to outsiders kicked in. Victims, ordered to keep quiet, were forced to confront their abusers in person. All complaints — which averaged one a month for six and half decades — were carefully recorded in sealed files, along with the church’s by-the-Bible responses.
One hundred and twenty-seven church officials were demoted. No one was reported to the authorities. Child abuse was recorded and hidden away.
Now, sordid details from the closed world of Jehovah’s Witnesses are being exposed that could severely tarnish the image of a powerful organization that has 8.2 million members around the world and has mostly avoided scrutiny.
Two years ago, the Australian government established a royal commission — similar to a presidential commission in the United States — to investigate institutionalized child sexual abuse.
The inquiry’s primary target was the Catholic Church, whose record of protecting pedophiles was almost as bad in Australia as in the United States. To avoid singling out one religion, government officials gave the inquiry wide legal powers to examine any organization that may have covered up abuse. But the commission has no authority to do anything beyond making recommendations to the government and observations about certain behavior in its final report. It cannot find anyone guilty of anything or issue any kind of punishment.
Of the religious and non-religious groups being investigated, the Jehovah’s Witnesses are exceptional, experts say. In a converted office in downtown Sydney, the organization’s doctrines and practices are being parsed by lawyers, victims and journalists, providing rare insight into one of the Christian world’s most conservative churches.
The church, which was founded in Pennsylvania in the 1870s to promote a First Century interpretation of the Bible and is now headquartered in Brooklyn, has emerged as the least able or willing to deal with sexual abuse within its ranks, according to Annie Cousins, a law professor at the University of New South Wales and an expert in sex crimes who is a consultant to the inquiry.
“I find their approach to the issue and victims extraordinarily bizarre — almost medieval,” she said in an interview.
Unlike the pedophile priests of the Catholic Church, the Jehovah’s Witnesses have no paid clergy. Abusers are mostly regular congregants, who are shielded from official prosecution by the church’s strict code of moral conduct. Based on a literal interpretation of the Bible, the rules call for separation from other members of society, who are considered spiritually inferior. Leadership in the church and in families is based on a formal hierarchy headed by men.
The church’s deep suspicion of outsiders, who are referred to, derogatorily, as “worldly,” is why sex abuse among Jehovah’s Witnesses is rarely reported to authorities, according to Angus Stewart, a South African lawyer who leads the investigation into the church.
“It is a system in which a group of men who are appointed from above, not by the congregation, stand in judgment over their fellow men, women and children on every aspect of their lives,” he told the inquiry last week. “There is no meaningful distinction between family and church.”
‘You have to be obedient’
In 1988, a 17-year-old girl in the state of Queensland was abused by her father, who was a prominent member of the local Jehovah’s Witness congregation, while her mother and six brothers and sisters were on vacation. He gave her alcohol and showed her pornographic movies.
“The first time that he tried to have sex with me, he came naked into my bed at night whilst I was sleeping and touched me all over my body,” the woman, who cannot be identified under Australian law, told the inquiry last week. “When I protested I remember him saying to me, ‘Shhhh, it’s okay. I’m your father. Be obedient to your father.’
“My father touched me and tried to have sex with me on at least four or five different occasions. I resisted as much as I could each time, but he was a violent man and prone to snap. I was absolutely petrified of him and tried not to make him angry.”
While she was being raped, her father quoted passages from the Bible and referred to scriptures about being more obedient that he had made her put up on her bedroom wall. “You have to be obedient to me,” he said during the sex, according to the woman, who is now 44.
After the rest of the family returned from their vacation, the father prohibited her from speaking to anybody he thought she might confide in. “If I broke his rules, he flogged me,” she said.
When the teenager revealed the assaults to her mother, she learned that several of her sisters had gone through a similar ordeal, including one who was 5.
The church has strict rules governing moral behavior. If a Jehovah’s Witness becomes aware that another member has committed a serious sin, such as “fornication, adultery, homosexuality, blasphemy, apostasy, adultery and similar gross sins,” they are advised to tell senior men in their congregation known as elders. The process for handling these complaints is based on notions of justice and procedural fairness devised some 2,000 years ago and recorded in the Bible.
The Jehovah’s Witnesses set a high bar for the discipline of their own. Church elders need to secure a confession or the testimony of two credible witnesses to the same incident; two witnesses to separate incidents of the same kind; or strong circumstantial evidence testified to by at least two witnesses. The accuser has to justify their allegations to male church elders, often in the presence of the alleged perpetrator.
Church officials acknowledge the process can be difficult for victims but say they have no choice but to follow the Bible. “Christ ended the law,” Rodney Spinks, one of the church’s top administrators in Australia, told the inquiry. “We, like many Christians, we are not fanatically trying to find references to make life difficult. We are applying scripture as we read it, in the best way we can, to sensitively integrate with modern society.”
Those found guilty are often banned from the church for a number of years, or demoted in the church hierarchy.
When the 17-year-old complained to church elders of being raped, two of her father’s friends carried out the investigation. “Did you enjoy it?” she said she was asked. When she was forced to repeat the allegations in front of her father, he said, according to her: “You seduced me.”
She later filed a police report, left the church and tried to commit suicide. Her father was expelled from the church, convicted of rape and sentenced to three years in jail.
Four years after the abuse, he was allowed to become a Jehovah’s Witness again. “I remember that when it was announced to the congregation, all of the brothers crowded around my father, shaking his hand and patting him on the back,” his daughter told the inquiry, referring to male members of the church. “Despite many people in the congregation knowing what he had done to me and my sisters, I heard members of the congregation say, ‘Welcome back.’ ”
Read more:
Here’s the new trailer for ‘Spotlight,’ the film about the Catholic sex abuse crisis
Pope Francis approves new tribunal to judge bishops accused of covering up sex abuse
U.N. panel blasts Vatican handling of clergy sex abuse, church teachings on gays, abortion
http://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/nsw/senior-jehovahs-witness-geoffrey-jackson-says-church-might-offer-compensation-to-alleged-abuse-victims-20150814-giyxuu.html
i'm sure we all have a greater faith in our legal system with stewart and mccellan battling the society.
here is a clip from a fictitious movie we all love.. www.youtube.com/watch?v=gp6f1emn1lo.
hi everyone, i'm new here, i've been following the rc reports, and i was hoping you could help, my question is are jw allowed to be police, i heard the jws saying in one report with enthusiasm that they had jw in the policeforce.
and would there be any conflict from the force with any of their teaching, that would be contrary to duties..
hi everyone, i'm new here, i've been following the rc reports, and i was hoping you could help, my question is are jw allowed to be police, i heard the jws saying in one report with enthusiasm that they had jw in the policeforce.
and would there be any conflict from the force with any of their teaching, that would be contrary to duties..
Thank you for your answers, I'm an Aussie, I was thinking of them having to 'swearing allegence to Australia'.
And if they can't be on the force were the JWS lying to RC.
hi everyone, i'm new here, i've been following the rc reports, and i was hoping you could help, my question is are jw allowed to be police, i heard the jws saying in one report with enthusiasm that they had jw in the policeforce.
and would there be any conflict from the force with any of their teaching, that would be contrary to duties..
Hi everyone, I'm new here, I've been following the RC reports, and I was hoping you could help, my question is are JW allowed to be police, I heard the JWs saying in one report with enthusiasm that they had JW in the policeforce. And would there be any conflict from the force with any of their teaching, that would be contrary to duties.
