Hi Smias03,
As others have suggested I would strongly recommend getting into college. Take advantage of your free youth and shyness by concentrating on a degree. Friends will come naturally as you busy yourself with school. You will not regret getting an education since all your hopes, dreams, and the level of freedom you will eventually enjoy depends upon a good job which, in turn, almost always requires a university degree. Do it now before you get tied down with a love interest and kids because it will only get harder to go back. Jws really cheat themselves when it comes to an education so don't end up in a low paying dead end job because some old fart Governing Body members in New York told you this was better. Living well is the best revenge.