Hi Mim,
Well, I am not female and I'm not Australian either, but I will give you my answers.
1. What induced me to join? I was raised in it.
2. How do I feel about the religion? I think it is a total crock of....
3. Why did I leave? I read the early books of Russell and Rutherford.
4. How did I cope? I went from a JW workaholic to a secular workaholic. There were no books like Franz's or Penton's and no support groups at that time. My wife and I were on our own....not easy. That was back in 1965.
Obviously, I am not concerned about confidentiality, having been out so long. I hail from Ohio, if that is of any value. I suspect that the answers you get will be the similiar all across the USA, and probably similiar to the answers in Australia.
I would bet that there are others who might answer your questions right here on the board.
PS
I have an e mail address, so you can write to me if you want any other details.