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  Mandated Shunning is a Crime

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  mandated shunning is on the rise around the world with devastating effects on millions of people.

  shunning that is mandated by organized groups to its members is a form of both physical and psychological violence against those people being shunned and cut off from their family and life-long relationships.

  mandated shunning means that the shunning is ordered from the top down.

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  @Lee:

  I don't dispute the tragedy of suicide, but thats not the question. When someone says:

  How many people have to die?

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  Even if it saves one life it would be worth it.

  Then you are playing with a legal principle that basically allows you to legislate away any right. Do you know how many people die from car accidents? Each one of those lives is a family decimated by tragedy. We could ban cars. If nobody is driving we could save many lives. If it saves just one life, it's worth it. How many people need to die before we act?!

  The same logic (flawed) was applied to COVID lock downs. If it saves just one life, it's worth it.

  No it's not because there was never a proper consideration of the net effects.

  Shunning should not be a crime.
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars (continued)

  by Simon in

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  2. friends

  uh oh, looks like the mega thread gave up the ghost, so while i investigate / fix it just continue the discussion here .... it's been a long 9 years lloyd evans / john cedars.

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  "Constrained" - A Haiku by Lloyd Evans

  The bonds of marriage
  They hold me, repressive bonds
  Comfort me Asia
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars (continued)

  by Simon in

  1. jw
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  uh oh, looks like the mega thread gave up the ghost, so while i investigate / fix it just continue the discussion here .... it's been a long 9 years lloyd evans / john cedars.

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  Did we accidentally figure out the max post count for a thread?
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

  by Newly Enlightened in

  1. watchtower
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  original reddit post (removed).

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  "Future" - A Haiku by Lloyd Evans

  My platform burning
  Virtuous patrons, goodbye
  Defamed by the truth
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

  by Newly Enlightened in

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  original reddit post (removed).

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  "Christmas" - A Haiku by Lloyd Evans

  Thailand calls for me
  Sweet family holiday
  Girls, over 20?
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  How many people thought about suicide after they were disfellowshipped

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i know i was suicidal before i was disfellowshipped.

  and it got worse after i left.

  one night a friend told me that he went home the night before and wasn't sure if he would ever hear from me again.

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  Witnesses would never admit that it had anything to do with their own family shunning them.

  This is true. Also incredibly sad and amazing.
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  How many people thought about suicide after they were disfellowshipped

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i know i was suicidal before i was disfellowshipped.

  and it got worse after i left.

  one night a friend told me that he went home the night before and wasn't sure if he would ever hear from me again.

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  I never knew any JW that committed, or attempted to commit, suicide after getting DFed.

  Active JWs - thats a different story. I knew two active JWs that successfully committed suicide while still in - and in pretty deep. Although, you never know. One was an elder. Had a big family too. Very sad.
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  Goodbye Mother

  by punkofnice in

  1. jw
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  so my mother passed on 20 aug 23 from the big c. i was there when she went.

  that was indeed very traumatic.

  i won't go to describe it.. dad went 17 years ago so there's just me now.

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  @punk: My condolences. Sorry for your loss.

  I refused to have a JW funeral because it is no more than a recruitment ad for the filthy, disgusting cult.

  Good lord, this is true. In the last two years, my wife lost two grandmothers and one aunt - all JW services. Being on the outside and hearing the pitch during a funeral service just made me so angry.

  I'm glad to hear that your mother received, in my opinion, a more dignified service.
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  Mandated Shunning is a Crime

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  mandated shunning is on the rise around the world with devastating effects on millions of people.

  shunning that is mandated by organized groups to its members is a form of both physical and psychological violence against those people being shunned and cut off from their family and life-long relationships.

  mandated shunning means that the shunning is ordered from the top down.

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  @Stan - I'm not even saying you can't hate them. I'm not even saying they can't hate you.

  What I am saying is that religions, and various groups in general, frequently come up with lists of stuff that they don't like so much. Take, for example, Islam. Have you tried to draw a picture of Mohammad for them? This is not an activity that they smile upon. One of their rules is "Don't draw pictures of Mohammad". And if you engage in that activity you are evil, deserving of death, and to back that up, they point to their scriptures. Your family would probably shun you if you did so, or even if you suggested it wasn't so bad.

  We should be able to "hate" the practice. Denounce it, tell them its actually immoral. We can even tell them they believe lies, and are abhorrent to life itself. But they don't have to listen, and I can't force them to agree with me.

  And they can't force me.

  Undermining that principle would endanger that separation.
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  Mandated Shunning is a Crime

  by Lee Marsh in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  mandated shunning is on the rise around the world with devastating effects on millions of people.

  shunning that is mandated by organized groups to its members is a form of both physical and psychological violence against those people being shunned and cut off from their family and life-long relationships.

  mandated shunning means that the shunning is ordered from the top down.

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  MeanMrMustard

  Yep. Might as well have been. The average new member sits in how many meetings? Hears this from the platform how many times? Actually sees it happen how many times?

  Right - they think we are all mentally diseased. So? I think THEY are mentally diseased. We're even.

  The point here is that it is not and should not be a crime.