So you dodged the question answer question if you cant answer its ok ckeck mate
Just because you don't like the answer doesn't mean the question wasn't answered.
If a government were to attempt to cause me to shun my family by imposing a fine, I would not shun. As others have pointed out, it's a false analogy. My point was that even if we grant the conditions of your scenario, it does not remove moral agency. You seem to be saying that moral agency can only attach under perfect conditions, with no consequences.
Look, it sucks if your family shuns. But that's on them.