I am not Disfellowshipped or dissasociated. I just stopped going to any meetings in 2005 and gave my last fs report in 2006.
I never mentioned to anyone I disagreed with any teachings.
Still, in the nearly 9 years I have been gone, nobody from my congregation has called me or come by to see how I am.
My jw brother stopped ansering my letters years ago and does not return my phone calls because I refuse to go back to meetings.