About a year and a half ago my Special Ladyfriend said, "I need to tell you... thank you sooo much! I love you!"
I said something like, "You mean, for that good rogering last night!?"
She said, "No!, I saw a car group out in service today with bored, sad people in it, and it hit me that you went through so much to help me get out of that cult! We're free because of what you did. We have good friends and a good life now... leaving was really hard to go through, but it was worth it!"