Posts by HappyOutsideTheBox

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NEW BLOOD CARD w/ FORCED COMPLIANCE also LEGALISM

by apocalypse in

i have looked around and i don't see this covered, so i am starting a thread.. 1) the new "blood card" goes beyond being just a "blood card".. 2) a new edict concerning compliance.. pay attention to the changes.. first, the new card is termed "advance decision to refuse specified medical treatment".

the big change with the card itself is that it includes an 'override' of your "power of attorney".

this is huge.

HappyOutsideTheBox

I find it concerning that they added this in: "I consent to my relevant medical records and the details of my condition being shared with the Emergency Contact below and/or with member(s) of the Hospital Liaison Committee" that is then followed with you having to supply your NHS number (that's new!).

In today's world of data protection - the idea of giving someone (the witness and the HLC) legal access to your medical records is, in my opinion, a step too far. Although it says "relevant medical records" - it doesn't take much to scroll through a data page to find more information.

HOTB

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JW TV - Britain Branch Report

by Listener in

although it is titled as "britain branch report" it's not much of a report.

it only goes for just over 6 minutes and half of it is some 'wild talk' about romeo and juliette, i say wild talk because it has nothing to do with the british branch and if there was any point to it, it's lost on me.. anyway, about the only thing said that is of any importance was this (at the 2.20 mark) -.

"the governing body, very kindly, have given us permission to continue construction once we have reviewed the scope of the building so we hope to be underway very soon".

HappyOutsideTheBox

Isn't it strange when you see someone after many years and think - 'my goodness he looks so old!'

Peter was always smart and smiling (still is no doubt) but I couldn't help noticing his shaky right hand. Was that nerves or has he been ill?

He's a 'Company' man through and through.

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Looking for Anton irons

by Super ted in

anybody know where he is now?.

i have a friend who wants to get in touch..

HappyOutsideTheBox

No JB I've had no reason to write to them for many, many years!

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Looking for Anton irons

by Super ted in

anybody know where he is now?.

i have a friend who wants to get in touch..

HappyOutsideTheBox

Send a letter to London Bethel and they will most likely forward it to him.

HOTB

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A fresh start

by FormerlySandL in

after the worst introduction i could ever make on the forum i would like to reintroduce myself and make a fresh start on the forum and hopefully over time i will be able to redeem myself.

i have changed my user name which was over dramatic and ridiculous in the cold light of day but for transparency and to show i am not trying to hide anything i have adapted the original name and it now has a more positive feel.

after reading a lot of posts on this forum i am feeling more optimistic about my future.

HappyOutsideTheBox

angry that I wasted my best years and didn't go on to university or do all the things I wanted to do.

As much as I hate to say it, it has damaged me.

At the moment I don't seem to fit anywhere ....too naive for 'the world' and too disillusioned for the JW's

I feel robbed and wish I hadnt known about 'the truth'

Those words echo pretty much how I (and probably a load of others) feel about the time we wasted. The range of emotions you feel will vary over time. Once you have built your new life with new friends and a totally different mindset - you will look back and be glad you made the choice to leave. We can't undo the past but we can certainly be positive that the future is ours...with no one making us feel subservient!

You sound much more positive today :)

Good Luck

HOTP

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Survey

by Reborn93 in

i was recommended to this forum by a member of jw recovery.

i am a former jw studying a psychology degree in the uk.

i am conducting a survey looking at former and current jehovah's witnesses and their beliefs.

HappyOutsideTheBox

Done!

HOTB

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Harry Holt - JW elder sexually assaulted 8 girls over 4 decades

by OrphanCrow in

church elder who sexually abused vulnerable children was invited to speak at first victim’s wedding.

a church elder who sexually abused vulnerable children was invited to speak at his first victim’s wedding, a court heard.. a court was told harry holt, 71, now of rutland street, nelson, went on to attack seven more girls as young as nine after the jehovah’s witnesses failed to report him to police.when the matter was raised, a local beat officer advised parents to ‘just keep your children away from him’, the court heard.. holt is facing a lengthy prison sentence after being convicted of attacks against eight girls in scotland dating back over 40 years.. .

full article at link..

HappyOutsideTheBox

I was so shocked to read that article.

I have known him for over 30 years - albeit I haven't had contact for many years since leaving the 'truth'.

I would never have thought it of him. He was a down to earth bloke who worked hard and was well liked.

I remember speaking to him when he planned to move to Edinburgh. He told me there had been trouble in the kingdom hall which was being handled badly and he was moving to get away from it. He implied the BOE were at the route of it. I was so sympathetic as I knew how some BOE's could be horrible.

Unlike Ian cousins (from the same circuit) who was jailed for abusing his daughter, Charlie was not a sleaze bag in any way that was apparent to me.

I guess it goes to show - we never really 'know' anybody.

HOTB

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Science Alert Quiz

by cofty in

take the test fellow hominids.... i got 7/7.

HappyOutsideTheBox

7/7

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My dog just died.

by panhandlegirl in

i just buried my beloved poddle, little brother.

he died suddenly.

i know to most people that is not an important event.

HappyOutsideTheBox

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Dogs are the most remarkable family we can have.

Their love is totally without conditions. The bring comfort, joy...and of course occasional frustrations!

Knowing their life is shorter than ours is difficult because it means we know that at some point we will lose them.

Every day I cuddle my dogs and tell them I love them (that's for my benefit!). They are completely in my heart but I'm under no illusion as to the pain I'll feel when they die.

Cry as much as you want over your beloved doggie. He'll be in a special part of your heart forever.

Sending you hugs accross the miles.

HOTB

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DINOSAURS - What do Jehovah's Witnesses Believe?

by Bloody Hotdogs! in

as part of my deconversion catharsis, i have been building a(nother) website to highlight some of the more ridiculous jw beliefs.

im a looong way from done, but i wanted some early feedback on one article: dinosaurs.

http://www.jwbeliefs.com/dinosaurs/.

HappyOutsideTheBox

Paralipomenon,

Isn't that the dinosaur from the inside cover of the green bible?

Seems familiar!

HOTB