zenpunk, that was a sad account indeed. I was never reproved publicly, but the announcement of my removal as an elder was difficult to hear. But, hey, I made some reprove and df announcements myself, so I got a taste of my own medicine.
It was not until my deletion was announced that I was hit with how hard it must be for others to have their name announced. To be frank, it would be great if every elder had his name announced sometime in life, so they can understand how hard it is.
I feel personally that all it does is make matters worse, especially for a younger person. The guilt you and your parents felt was a lot to have to deal with I am sure. And there you were, the 'object of their shame' as it were. Young JWs nowadays do so much behind their parents backs because of that. Rather than be open and honest with parents, which would nip a lot of potential problems in the bud, many JW kids sneak around and as a result get into some real big difficulty before their parents find out.
Edited by - jack2 on 13 November 2002 15:51:58