Chappy: I think some slave owners probably did love their slaves. Since they lived in a culture that condoned slavery, they may have reasoned that they are giving slaves security in exchange for labor. They may not have seen any problem with this. Love is not reasonable. It does not automatically come with a set of morals. It can actually exist beside brutality. Love is not a code. It's an emotion. Actions are greatly influenced by our culture. A slave owner could easily reason that they are good to their slaves, keep them warm, feed them well, and therefore, they are showing love.
Exactly.
This is why the whole "Law of Love" thing is subjective.
ANYTHING can be justified by the "Law of Love".
For example:
A person may be mentally ill. We can sympathise with that, and do what we can to help them. THAT is loving.
Standing back and watching a mentally ill person destroy other people, and claim that we are showing LOVE to the mentally ill person.....how is that loving? It's a false "love". You are not helping the mentally ill person, nor are you showing love to the people they are hurting.
"Law of Love" is a joke......it's just one's own justification for one's own actions.