Shadow1

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  I was puzzled...

  by Shadow1 in

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  on the weekend, my jw wife and i were invited to her sister's home for dinner, to celebrate my wife's daughter's reinstatement.

  shortly before the meal, my sil informed me that her family always says a prayer before the meal.

  here's the thing...she asked me if i would be offended!

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  I think that when I went there for dinner, I was just imagining the worst. It actually went quite well. To the point where I somewhat enjoyed my evening!
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  I was puzzled...

  by Shadow1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  on the weekend, my jw wife and i were invited to her sister's home for dinner, to celebrate my wife's daughter's reinstatement.

  shortly before the meal, my sil informed me that her family always says a prayer before the meal.

  here's the thing...she asked me if i would be offended!

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  hope4others...lol...I'll stick with un-believing mate!
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  I was puzzled...

  by Shadow1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  on the weekend, my jw wife and i were invited to her sister's home for dinner, to celebrate my wife's daughter's reinstatement.

  shortly before the meal, my sil informed me that her family always says a prayer before the meal.

  here's the thing...she asked me if i would be offended!

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  true enough Summer.
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  I was puzzled...

  by Shadow1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  on the weekend, my jw wife and i were invited to her sister's home for dinner, to celebrate my wife's daughter's reinstatement.

  shortly before the meal, my sil informed me that her family always says a prayer before the meal.

  here's the thing...she asked me if i would be offended!

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  On the weekend, my JW wife and I were invited to her sister's home for dinner, to celebrate my wife's daughter's reinstatement. Shortly before the meal, my SIL informed me that her family always says a prayer before the meal. Here's the thing...she asked me if I would be offended! (I am a UBM). I was actually quite amazed that she would even think to ask me that. Of course, I told her, that this is her home, and it was certainly fine with me.

  This just kind of puzzled me...Shadow1
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  using your car in service

  by megaflower in

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  i did not mind occasionally useing my vehicle out in service but the elder who did the morning text use to volunteer my car all the time.my pet peeves were:.

  1. people walking through mud, grass clippings(rural territory) and just hoping back into the car.

  mudd all over carpet.

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  I'm sure my wife will never use my car for service...it's a Mini Cooper!!! lol
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  would reading "Crisis of Conscience" be of help?

  by Shadow1 in

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  would reading "cof c" be of help to an atheist, married to a jw?

  still trying to figure things out with my wife and her religion.. thanks...shadow1.

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  thanks all...in the process now of downloading "Crisis of Conscience"

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  would reading "Crisis of Conscience" be of help?

  by Shadow1 in

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  would reading "cof c" be of help to an atheist, married to a jw?

  still trying to figure things out with my wife and her religion.. thanks...shadow1.

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  Would reading "Cof C" be of help to an atheist, married to a JW? Still trying to figure things out with my wife and her religion.

  Thanks...Shadow1
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  what do you sleep in?

  by megaflower in

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  i prefer nothing

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  completely naked...completely shaved...whoops!!
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  How Happy I am to have found this site

  by ladylove in

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  wow, i'm not crazy!!!

  i thought it was just my jw father that was unloving, i thought i was a bad person.

  thank you all so much for posting here.

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  Welcome Ladylove! I'm sure you will find the members here very helpful and supportive. I know I have.

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  My wife is attending an "Assembly"?

  by Shadow1 in

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  my wife has gone to attend an "assembly" can anyone tell me what goes on at these meetings?.

  -"un-believing mate" still very new to all of this.. .

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  thanks to all...After losing my previous wife, 7 yrs ago to cancer, I swore I would never "settle" should I ever remarry. I still feel the same way. I will not let this religion get in the way of my happiness. If it starts to do that, I'll concider that a "dealbreaker", and I will walk away. Plan and simple.

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