if she dosnt work , encourage her to do so , she will meet lots more new friends and wont have time for fake ones !
looloo
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Help Please - Wife Misses Friends, Wants to return to KH
by Mad Sweeney inthe topic says it all.
i am frustrated and dumbfounded.
i understand that she misses the social activity with her "friends" but we have been "very" busy socially the last several months with new friends and she's been having a great time.
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whats wrong with these people ?
by looloo ini was talking to my disfellowshipped friend today , her jw die hard mum is best friends with the sister of the child molester that raped my 13 year old , and abused two others (that we know of )one was abused between 11 to 13 years the other was 13 , my friends mum was tallking about "bad associations" to my friend the day before , my friend said "well you hang around with the family of a paodophile , who still support him and you get your car fixed by him " her answer was "that is just buisness " and its unfair to call him a paedophile , he has done things wrong but that word is a bit strong !!!!!!!!
i was livid , what morons that religion has in it , he is a convicted sex offender ,but thats ok because hes not a paedophile !
ignorant stupid cow !
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looloo
this guy is disfellowshipped (he had an affair years ago ) but his crimes came out after he was disfellowshipped (thanks to me , not jws ) but i think because he has always been a huge supporter of "the truth" (not that the bastard is very good at telling it !) and alot of his family are active dubs , they believe him over my child (because im considered "apostate" ) is it any wonder i turned my back on them ! but the odd thing is the other 2 victims are active dubs also ! so why they dont believe them i dont know , i feel like sueing bastards who stick up for him instead of victims , for gods sake even the elders were supportive (to my face ) and one of them said he would be very angry with anyone who said my girl made it up ! its bad enough what happened to my girl and her suffering goes on , but the enablers carry on sticking the boot in and minimising what he did ! which was violent sexual abuse , mental cruelty (calling my girl frigid) he was 43 she was 13 (just ) and much more that i cant go into ! these people do not know the details i know of and have no right to make light of his crimes ! he was a father figure to all these victims and knew them all as either babies or young children ! what sort of freak wants that monster to fix her car ! then go preaching to the wicked worldleys how to live their lives "properley " hypocrites "
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whats wrong with these people ?
by looloo ini was talking to my disfellowshipped friend today , her jw die hard mum is best friends with the sister of the child molester that raped my 13 year old , and abused two others (that we know of )one was abused between 11 to 13 years the other was 13 , my friends mum was tallking about "bad associations" to my friend the day before , my friend said "well you hang around with the family of a paodophile , who still support him and you get your car fixed by him " her answer was "that is just buisness " and its unfair to call him a paedophile , he has done things wrong but that word is a bit strong !!!!!!!!
i was livid , what morons that religion has in it , he is a convicted sex offender ,but thats ok because hes not a paedophile !
ignorant stupid cow !
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looloo
i was talking to my disfellowshipped friend today , her jw die hard mum is best friends with the sister of the child molester that raped my 13 year old , and abused two others (that we know of )one was abused between 11 to 13 years the other was 13 , my friends mum was tallking about "bad associations" to my friend the day before , my friend said "well you hang around with the family of a paodophile , who still support him and you get your car fixed by him " her answer was "that is just buisness " and its unfair to call him a paedophile , he has done things wrong but that word is a bit strong !!!!!!!! i was livid , what morons that religion has in it , he is a convicted sex offender ,but thats ok because hes not a paedophile ! ignorant stupid cow ! and our inlaws wonder why we dont want to mix with idiots like that !
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Where do I begin?
by Backspacer ini'm new here but have been reading/lurking for several months.
it's good to know that i'm not alone in my ex-jw status and that my story and experiences are not unique.
i have no bitterness or anger anymore.... that's long gone since i left some 12 years ago.
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looloo
welcome how i identify with you x
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Converstaion Stoppers, do they really work?
by Mall Cop inremember, the topic in the reasoning book, conversation stoppers.
well, did they actually work against you or for you?.
are there conversation stoppers that you use now at your place of work or the bar, or with your significance other, that you use?.
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looloo
by the way , i bet that conversation stopper is not in the reasoning book !
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Converstaion Stoppers, do they really work?
by Mall Cop inremember, the topic in the reasoning book, conversation stoppers.
well, did they actually work against you or for you?.
are there conversation stoppers that you use now at your place of work or the bar, or with your significance other, that you use?.
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looloo
when i say i know you mean well and why you have knocked on my door , but my daughter was raped by a man i met at a kingdom hall and believe me you havnt got long enough to listen to why im not interested ! that has always worked as a coversation stopper ! im not rude to them but very clear and they usually look very embarresed and look at me with pity (which is not my aim ) the only person who still tried to carry on past that was a young man of about 17 who unlike the others could obviously not even begin to comprehend what i must feel like (my daughter was only 13 ) he asked me what i thought of the congregation as a whole ? i said "some were nice " others were not " "just like any other religion", he did give up eventually !
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November 2010 JW Campaign
by dozy into be entitled "offering the bible - what is its message?".
possibly a tract or brochure - haven't had any other details yet.
maybe they are even going to offer the bible (now that would be a novelty!).
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looloo
oh no not another one ! i took that , and was lead to believe the end was sooooo close because of them doing a "campaign ) around 94 ! and theres been a few since then !
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15 year old dies after family turns down blood tranfusion
by looloo inits just been on the news in birmingham , uk on saturday morning while on the ministry he was run over by a car and needed a transfusion , his family refused and he has died , what a waste , what a wicked religion !.
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looloo
it said so on the itv news at 6pm , that a transfusion was refused because of his faith , it might be on at 10pm again
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15 year old dies after family turns down blood tranfusion
by looloo inits just been on the news in birmingham , uk on saturday morning while on the ministry he was run over by a car and needed a transfusion , his family refused and he has died , what a waste , what a wicked religion !.
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looloo
its just been on the news in birmingham , uk on saturday morning while on the ministry he was run over by a car and needed a transfusion , his family refused and he has died , what a waste , what a wicked religion !
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im so worried about my daughter ,need some advice please !
by looloo inmy daughter was abused by an ex min servant age 13 , she is now 22 and has been with her loving caring boyfriend for a year (he is her 1st boyfriend ) over the years she has been bulimic ,self harmed and suffered low self esteem , i thought she had got better since the relationship with her boyfriend started , i found out yesterday that she is no better at all and im frightened for her , her boyfriend said "that bastard haunts her" she suffers flashbacks and post traumatis stress disorder , due to the horrific things the abuser did and said to her , which i cant bare to go into detail about as i try to block it out my mind , unfortunatly my poor girl cannot !
she has had a lot of help by a psyciatrist , counsellor etc but is no better so what can i do to help ?
have any of you been in this situation ?
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looloo
thanx everyone for your kind comments , its nice to show you care to a stranger x