".......if they had told the truth in the first place who would have wanted to have anything to do with this religion in the first place"
So true. Another thing that always convinced me of their lack of honesty (and yet I still stayed with them?) if they had the REAL truth, listening to what others said would not have been an issue because they would have been totally convinced, "inspirationally", that what they believed was 110% accurate.
LINDA