i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
hmmmm......
Since I believe love is a 'choice' ie a 'decision'...not a 'feeling'
One needs TIME to gather data
As for the second option...twould take a Miracle...
but then again.....I spose that's where 'prayer' comes in
If this relationship folds.... I'll be 'toast' as far as relating to someone else
Takes me a 'long' time to go through that 'grief' process thing
on tuesday, july 31, 2007, jehovah's witnesses in turkey received a. letter of certification confirming that the "association for the support.
of jehovah's witnesses" has been officially registered.
the witnesses.
hmmmm....what's this all about I wonder?
Is Turkey the only country doing this?
i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
I wish....sure would make things easier.
I'm deathly afraid of sex 'out of context'
Remember that song quoting Ecclesiastes....
To Everything there is a SEASON
turn...turn...turn
I never did understand the significance of the words
???? 'turn..turn...turn....???
But I sure 'get' the message of that song
................................THERE IS A TIME AND PLACE FOR EVERYTHING..................................
RAF...thankyou
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i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
It was a GOOD thing that I didn't have an initial overwhelming physical attraction for him
In my experience chemistry can develop...
Believe me...the physical contact we did have showed me that that element was definitely there
which is why.....I was constantly 'ducking' him didn't want things to get out of hand
I even started believing that God was helping this relationship ....because....
I found myself having no desire to kiss him.
.I'' was'' a little worried.tho
...thought I'd have to 'train' him how to kiss.........
.but.........then....
one day he was on his way to work....and he kissed me and that 'particular' time
it got me really'' **spinning**.....surprised me???!!!!
I couldn't figure out WHY....and then..
.after I thought about it
I realized it was because I """wasn't afraid """"of where kissing him would lead us
because......he was on his way to work....... and
there was 'no time'take it further.
My mind is in control.....I hate to sound ungrateful...but sometimes...
I wish I could turn it off....just sometimes
i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
I met him the end of May.
He wasn't pushy....was a great dancer...nice and clean cut..... NOT a JW.
......soooooo....
I thought we could be friends.........
I was still 'active'.......when the DC came around I invited him.
I realized that he probably wouldn't become a Jehovah's Witness so I told him I couldn't see him anymore
During that 3 week separation period I DIDN't miss him....
I had something more important on my mind....and besides
I felt morally and intellectually superior...after all he wasn't a JW
During that 3 week separation period I finally went on the Internet
The biggest impact was the UN NGO affiliation ...
I ran into him again while I was in the midst of my 'shock and denial' experience
He's told me he loves me
I've told him I can't say that yet...because...
to me...
saying ' I Love You' means the same as...... I have 'decided to commit'...for ALL time
Something has just occured to me as I write this post....
Could it be that I am in the 'shock and denial' stage now re this relationship
Sure feels like it.....after all the attention and loving acts and compliments...
I still can't believe he would let me go
I guess this weekend was the clincher because we went to a music festival and it was near my house and too far for him to travel back to his house an hours drive away...sooo
He slept in the living room...'not' his choice
Yup ....I spose it's finally SUNK in....
I miss him
as the world becomes a smaller and smaller place, due to advances in technology, there is increased opportunity for persons of different races and cultures to meet and start families.. will the the differences between the races start to disappear as a result?.
do you believe this would be a positive or negative development?.
My grandchildren are.....
Scottish.....
Upper Canada English
Metis(french and native)..not confirmed but suspected
Jewish....and.....
Black
i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
OTWO...????.....please explain^^^^^^^^^^how is it 'hitting him.....
i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
I t finally sunk in...and he was making it's over noises....
I suggested he think about it for a week...
if I call him it would be like I was backing off from my position...wouldn't it.....grrrrr.......oh the high price of 'integrity.....
Besides....I be a 'chicken' with pride....he did such a good job of convincing me how much he cared...and how 'beautiful I am......
I'm finding it hard to accept that he could leave me....wonderful 'old school' me....
be honest.. my best quality is my humility.. my worst is that i lie..
My best quality..'.honesty'
....hmmmm...wait a sec.....maybe not.....ummmmm.......?????
Worst quality..........'indeciveness'.......
i think i just lost another man because of the 'sex within the confines of marriage' issue.. my sister said i should wait til i have them hooked before i make it clear where i stand.. doesn't seem quite honest to me......but....i'm wondering if i'm somehow sabotaging the relationship.. .
Hmmmmm....thanx for the input....could be I'm 'honestly' sabotaging...
yup...'presentation' is everything.....BUT...
what do I do about the guy I already ''hit on the head''
I gotta be honest...but...but....
