yep... i cant believe how close minded they are when they are apart of the borg. its sad but i was one of those people that thought what they were saying was wrong but i would have never said anything about it.
Missanna
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quick question
by Missanna inif you got married while a witness... did any of the elders come to you and talk to you about the right and wrong sexual acts you can perform??
just curious.
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Is it weird that I don't miss it?
by bluesbreaker59 inok, other than my father, i don't miss anything about being a dub at all.
seriously, i love my life right now, its great, thinking for myself, doing what i want, etc., etc.. i've only been out 3 months, officially, and i find no "void" or anything.
i've got a bunch of great friends on the outside, that i had for years while being jw, and then i have my mother and all her family supporting me.
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Missanna
Congrats! i know exactly how you feel. the first taste of REAL freedom is soooooo nice. but every once in a while the guilt comes back but you realize it's just what was drilled into you for so long. the best advice i can give you is if anyone from your old hall tries to make you feel guilty don't let them and don't try to explain why you left. it won't make any difference. just let them talk, they get bored easily. lol again CONGRATS!
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quick question
by Missanna inif you got married while a witness... did any of the elders come to you and talk to you about the right and wrong sexual acts you can perform??
just curious.
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honey, i did tell you... actually the same day she asked me. lol you have the worst memory your sooo cute.... i told her that i didn't know (tee hee) and that i didn't see anything wrong with it anyway because if God made us differently to enjoy different things sexually i don't see how something that brings you pleasure can be wrong if god made us that way. lol that was an awkward conversation.
anyway, yes i was talked to about different things that are "wrong" lol but it might have just been a small town nosey congregation. doesn't matter anymore i guess. thanks for all you imput on the matter everyone!
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quick question
by Missanna inif you got married while a witness... did any of the elders come to you and talk to you about the right and wrong sexual acts you can perform??
just curious.
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lol i remember those embarressing talks that i would blush through when i use to be innocent and pure. lol but when i was even thinking about marrage i got the sex talks from everywhere. my parents, the elders, My mom was especially personal with it she actually said to me one day "he doesn't like the rough stuff does he? like handcuffs and stuff?" this is comming from the woman who hasn't had sex in about 10 years... anyway plus i was a pioneer at the time and it might have been their way of trying to get me to break up with him but i had so many pioneer "sisters" who would talk to me about the wrong things to do. lol it cracks me up now but i am just curious if anyone else had this experience?
oh and nvrgnbk, You welcome anytime!
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quick question
by Missanna inif you got married while a witness... did any of the elders come to you and talk to you about the right and wrong sexual acts you can perform??
just curious.
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if you got married while a witness... did any of the elders come to you and talk to you about the right and wrong sexual acts you can perform?? just curious.
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My Space
by loosie indid you ever search myspace for jehovahs witnesses?
i just opend an account recently and i went searching around.
i found some jw's there.
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Missanna
lol i know. i got a myspace account before i left and when i took my religious option off i got all these nasty messages from jw's i know. it cracks me up how hypocritical people are. i think i scared them off with all my angry blogs twards them. haha victory is mine!
Oh and did you know there was actually a talk at the convention a few years ago actually stating that myspace is a way for Satan to get to you? thought that was pretty interesting.
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hypnosys experience?
by Hermano inhello everyone, long time lurker, first post.
can you share your experiences with hypnosis?
beyond the yes it worked for me or no it did not work for me, what i am looking for especifically is whether or not it opened you up for demon attacks or demonic activity.
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Missanna
First of all WELCOME! and second i have never experienced hypnosys i've researched it some because i was interested in the idea of it for a while but no experience but i do believe in demons. Once when i was really young my sister was at home alone when my brothers keyboard started playing a song on it by itself. i know it sounds silly but my sister was so tramatized by it and i believe it was demons messing with her.
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You could have knocked me over with a feather I was so shocked!!!
by Bumble Bee inok, i met my brother today.
he drove me to my eye appt out of town.
we rarely get time together alone (no spouses/kids etc).
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Missanna
OH WOW that's so amazing. u are lucky. i wish my family was so open minded. congrats and i hope to hear from him soon. I'm so happy for you!
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My Story
by Missanna inok for some reason i can't sleep tonight and feel like writing so i'm gonna tell my story of how i got to this point.
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Missanna
well i view it this way.... You are who you are because of your experiences in life that's something that can't be helped. but you have a choice of how to handle those experiences. in my case i had the choice of letting what happened to me turn me into a bitter person that hates the world and everyone in it and never letting real solid love in to my life and not being truly be happy or i had the other choice of saying wait a minute this is my life! i take control and i choose to be happy and move on. although, yes, this is something that is going to take a looooong time to fully recover from but ya know i've made the choice to heal because i think i went through hell for 18 years and its about time i start living in happiness.
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My Story
by 38 Years inhere's my story.
i tried to shorten it as much as possible.. my family belonged to a baptist church and i was baptized in that church when i was 8 years old.
i sincerely believed in jesus and the bible then and still do now.
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Missanna
38 Congrats at getting out. I know it's a struggle. just know that here you are welcome and loved