Posts by DreamMaster

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Wondering whether or not to join the Air Force

by Patrick_Ryan in

jw
friends

i'm new here and i have some questions about joining the air force or not.

i'm 21 years old, i was raised as a jehovah's witness but stopped going when i was 13 because i was a kid and thought it was boring (like school).

even after i quit going i still done things that were right or i tried to still live by what i was taught and i'm greatful that i was raised that way because it kept me out of a lot of trouble and made me who i am today.

DreamMaster

Hey Dude,

I say go for it!

IMHO people between the ages of 18-22 are too young to be into college and they can't really get out of it what it was intended to give them. They end up young idiots with degrees running the show. They don't yet have the cognitive abilities to make a fully informed responsible decision so running the show is most definitely not the best job for these kids. See the world, build some character, have some fun across seas because when you get home it will be time to make money.

Pick your career carefully and use the time to learn evrything you can especially other languages. By the time you get home you'll be in the perfect frame of mind to pursue your degree and masters and graduate at the top of your class.

Think about it! and Good Luck!

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Average Numbers of Victims per Molester (rev)

by Amazing in

i added a post below to janh, number 15, to address some realistic numbers.

some have had difficulty in accepting the number of victims per pedophile i have used, i.e.

i based this on what an attorney who prosecutes such cases against molesters told me.

DreamMaster

Geesh Pork Chop!!!

Excuse me if I'm mistaken but are you defending these monsters?

You're probably not but it sure sounds that way. I don't mean to be rude but I wish people on this board( that means everyone ) would put more thought into what they type and the way they type it. Sometimes it's difficult to really understand what a person is trying to say because they're too lazy to type what they really want to say. Then there are others who babble on saying the same thing over and over never really conveying a valid point. I'm not bashing just a thought.

Amazing, keep up the good work. You wont be forgotten!

"Audio and Video is Undeniable" and without them we'll never nail those bastards!

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Enough Talk, Let's Kick Ass

by DreamMaster in

jw
friends

oh my god!!!!.

my wife just took me to a site about jw women being molested and abused and not only wasn't anyone prosecuted, those bastards were allowed to continue raping these innocent children under the protection of the gb.

i was not raised a jw so when i hear something like this it ignites in me an anger that you can not begin to imagine.

DreamMaster

Hi seven,

Thanks for sharing that. It couldn't have been easy. It seems like we have a lot in common. Someday together we will make a difference. WE WILL BRING THOSE SUCKERS DOWN!!
I HAVE NEVER BEEN ONE TO JUST TALK

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Enough Talk, Let's Kick Ass

by DreamMaster in

jw
friends

oh my god!!!!.

my wife just took me to a site about jw women being molested and abused and not only wasn't anyone prosecuted, those bastards were allowed to continue raping these innocent children under the protection of the gb.

i was not raised a jw so when i hear something like this it ignites in me an anger that you can not begin to imagine.

DreamMaster

May Day! May Day!

Are there any JW females in this world that have not been raped, molested, or abused! Please contact me for I have never met one!

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Convention Apostatizing Brings Gestapo Response

by outnfree in

jw
friends

my flyers merely said: if as a jehovahs witness, a member of your family has been molested information is available for further information see: www.silentlambs.org or call 1-877-wtabuse.. nothing overtly inflammatory, actually more like a public service announcement.. i guess thats what most of the local organizers and friends thought in my neck of the, woods for the first two days of the district convention!

but once the 'friends' realized that the website i was promoting with my flyers and moving car billboard was not an approved wt site, the powers that be got ... well ... pissed is the word!.

nobody bothered me on friday as i went smiling about my posting flyers on the light and utility poles on the routes to/from the convention site.

DreamMaster

I luv it too!!!

But you forgot the most important accessory. The video camera!!!
If you had had a camcorder, the whole incicdent could be on the web right now and it would have shown just how dangerous this org really is. Don't take this lightly because this is not a game. Your life could very well be in danger. You are cutting in to the control and money of this organization and whacking you would be worth it to them so be careful.

I think what you are doing is great but never do it alone or with your child. Organize, get all the legal info you need to do this and find out exactly what you can and cannot do first. Warn the cops beforehand of what you plan to do and why you're doing it and that the JW's gang might try and stop you. These guys have the money and the power of the mafia and you're lying to yourself if you don't believe they'll do anything to protect their interest.

Just Remember: Go no where and do nothing without as many people with camcorders as you can muster up!!! What you're doing needs to be done in every city in America and I'll be the first to do it in mine.

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Enough Talk, Let's Kick Ass

by DreamMaster in

jw
friends

oh my god!!!!.

my wife just took me to a site about jw women being molested and abused and not only wasn't anyone prosecuted, those bastards were allowed to continue raping these innocent children under the protection of the gb.

i was not raised a jw so when i hear something like this it ignites in me an anger that you can not begin to imagine.

DreamMaster

ladonna,

Thanks for not taking offense to what I said earlier. However, I am very sorry to hear what happened to you at such a young age. It's not too late to get his ass either. IT might bring back some terrible memories but if you want gather the neccessary information and file charges against him. I'm pursuing a similar case with my wife's rapist. Don't wait for Judgement Day, justice is now!!

Why I brought up the pornography issue was because in "some" cases it is proven to lead to violence towards women.

P.S. I have not and will not ever hit a woman. It's just not my style!

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Enough Talk, Let's Kick Ass

by DreamMaster in

jw
friends

oh my god!!!!.

my wife just took me to a site about jw women being molested and abused and not only wasn't anyone prosecuted, those bastards were allowed to continue raping these innocent children under the protection of the gb.

i was not raised a jw so when i hear something like this it ignites in me an anger that you can not begin to imagine.

DreamMaster

Oh my God!!!!

My wife just took me to a site about JW women being molested and abused and not only wasn't anyone prosecuted, those bastards were allowed to continue raping these innocent children under the protection of the GB. I was not raised a JW so when I hear something like this it ignites in me an anger that you can not begin to imagine. The mere thought of something like this happening to my child turns me into a raving crazed lunatic and I will gladly murder anyone responsible without hesitation.

I know these words sound harsh but I don't care. I mean, this is my child we're talking about. I have never in my secular life had to deal with anything even remotely similar to this. As I said before, my wife was raised a jw and she was molested, hell no I'm not sugar coating it like the rest of those satan worshipping panzies. SHE WAS RAPED by a so called elder that was almost 20 years older than her when she was just a kid. I know for a fact that has something to do with why she's so fu.... up. I used to blame her but not anymore. I blame every single jw that knows this shit is going on and sits around for the most stupid reasons I have ever heard in my life and does absolutely squat about it.

I was raised "worldly" and the only two people I have ever known that were abused and molested just happened to be jw's. Enough is enough. I don't know where, when, or how but I'm going to dedicate a significant part of my life to destroying this cult but what I really want is to see every one of those no good bastards in jail for the rest of their lives. Get ready for a fight Bethel, I'm only 29 and if God wills it, I have a lot of good fighting years ahead of me.

It's time for the people of this board to unite for one cause. For once let's just leave religion out of it and do what our hearts tell us is right. STOP listening to what others say and just start trusting yourself for a change. We are not idiots, we know right from wrong. So to hell with what the GB's "OPINION" is. As a matter of fact, they go first!

Information is the most valuable commodity in the world. Audio and Video evidence is UNDENIABLE! Start now buying microcassette recorders and tape everything. Video is better if you can afford it, maintain it, and know how to use it. This is war and if you're still in the org and having doubts, you'll probably be our most important weapon because you have ACCESS! I know where you can get listening devices w/video as small as a pinhead. This organization can only be brought down from the inside so let's go to work.

P.S. Do I still sound like a troll?!!!

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DreamMaster's Reply

by DreamMaster in

jw
friends

i would like to first of all thank everyone that has replied to this thread.

it's been a very interesting read and i couldn't wait to clear up a few things.

i have yet to see a picture do any of those things.

DreamMaster

I would like to first of all thank everyone that has replied to this thread. It's been a very interesting read and I couldn't wait to clear up a few things. First things first; I am not a troll! My wife told me to say that and she is also my connection to this forum. She is friends with a lot of you and an ex witness. I will not tell you who she is so don't ask.

The comments that affected me the most were the ones about privacy. When a person commits a crime, they are arrested and brought to trial. Before the trial there's an investigation ( a gathering of evidence) in which PRIVACY is the first so called "right" you relinquish. Detectives are allowed to turn your life upside down and inside out and invade every shred a privacy you have in order to get at the truth. Ex-cons have no rights. Some of you obviously misunderstood when I said that this woman has a history of extramarital affairs. We do have small children and I want this thing to work or I would not be with her now.

It is very difficult and natural for me to not trust her as I once did. When your spouse has their own personal closet which you know contains many skeletons, imho you have evry right to open that closet door and take a peek. How do you think it makes me feel to know that on any given day she could do it again and life as I know it is over. She promised to change but I'm telling you that having cybersex with another man doesn't sound like change to me. For all of you wondering if this is my fault, it's not. My wife and every previous girlfriend will vouch for my virility. As a witness,my wife lived a very unordinary life one that most of you can relate to. Imho, it was this upbringing that makes her the way she is. I've read a few threads on this board to that affect also.

Now about these nude pictures. I can not believe that one woman said she would divorce her husband for "looking at nude pictures." I would bet cash money that she's not married and I think we all know why. I do not masturbate to these pictures or sleep with them. I simply look that's it. I'm a man not the sugar plum fairy. A picture can not describe to you in vivid detail how it wants to love you. YOU CANNOT COMPARE A PICTURE TO A HUMAN BEING! I have no idea what where when or who the ladies on these picture are. I will never see them in my lifetime. If your spouse looked at the cover of amagazine and said " damn she/he is fine, would you over react and feel threatned by that. I don't think so. BUT! What if you unexpectedly walked into your bedroom and your spouse quickly and nervously hung up the telephone or the computer. You would want to know what heck was going on wouldn't you? That's because whoever was on the otherside of that phone or screen was a real walking talking sex capable, home wrecking person. I have yet to see a picture do any of those things.

You guys really have helped more than you know. As a matter of fact, I think I like this forum and am going to remain a member. I think that conseling is a good idea but I think that some of the people on this board could use a little advice from Frasier themselves but for the most part I've been received with open arms. I've also learned a lot and I think my wife has too. She's been reading along the whole time. She's been debating about posting so let us know if you'd like to hear from her. I had more points to cover but I don't want this post to seem neverending so I'm stopping now but, "I'll be back"

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CyberSex

by DreamMaster in

cybersex: real or fantasy!.

i would like to tell you good people a story and when i'm finished i would appreciate your honest opinion as i know you wouldn't give me anything less.

my wife and i have been fighting about a situation which recently arose in our home.

DreamMaster

CyberSex: Real or Fantasy!

I would like to tell you good people a story and when I'm finished I would appreciate your honest opinion as I know you wouldn't give me anything less.

My wife and I have been fighting about a situation which recently arose in our home. Actually, thanks to the wonderful feature "message archive" found in Yahoo Messenger, I found more than one EXTREMELY SEXUAL conversations with another man. These conversations were so sexual that it suffices to say that a cigarette would not have been enough. She probably smoked a pack. After finding these messages I saved them in a dirctory deep in my computer and waited for the next one. The next few days were excruciating. I could not sleep, I didn't want to go to work from fear that this "affair" would continue but I knew the archive was enabled.

I hated even seeing her log on now. Everytime she got on the computer I was very jealous as if she was making love to the machine itself. If you're a man you may be able to relate to this, or maybe not. My insecurity stems from my wife already having a "record" of this kind of thing but with a real person.

One day, I watched her log on and noticed that she was in the messenger preferences menu. I was at least 5 ft. behind her but she didn't know I was looking. That's when she changed her password, something she had never done. I knew then I had no more access to her messenger archives(previous conversations). That's when I exploded. I confronted her about the cybersex she was having and demanded an explanation.

Her answer: It wasn't real! The words, thoughts, and feelings that truly "existed" as a result of this experience were very real to me. She says they were ficticious but I told her the orgasm she had was not. She talks to this guy on a regular basis, even when I'm around. I didn't mind until now. She hid these conversations, snuck around talking after I was asleep, and willingly participated in step by step sex with this guy but "it wasn't real" yeah right!

She tells me it's no different than when I look at nude pictures on the net. That's what you're here for. Can you compare mutually exchanging ideas and dialogue to the point of extasy to looking at a picture. I could never sleep with a picture but if she really wanted to, she could meet up with this guy. Afterall, they already feel comfortable with each other and to me, that's how it all starts.

What do you think? I need help with this situation; my marriage is on the line. This wouldn't be such a big deal if she didn't already have a history and now I wonder if I'll ever be able to trust her. The bible says in Mark 7:20 "That which issues forth out of a man is what defile a man." This woman commited adultery in mind body and soul, therefore it was just as real as if she had physically done it. I'm not looking for an excuse to leave my wife. I just want to make a point. Can you help me?