When I was still in the borg I went to a South American country to visit my wife's family. While there we went to their hall. It was appaling, crumbling walls, a tin roof full of holes. The seats were concrete blocks with a rotting piece of wood laid across them. The few lights they had were strung up using bare wire under some of them were right under some of the holes in the roof and if it rained they would lose lights as they would short out.
Well I came beck from they and I told the elders in my hall of the situation that their fellow brothres in Christ were in, and asked if we as a congregation could help. I have to say that during the two years prior to my trip our hall had been making plang, voting etc on remodling our hall. We as a congregation had already paid this "brother" architect three different times to design the thing. (Then four more times after that mind you). Our hall was by no means a wealthy one, and with each new set of plans paid for the funds would be depleted for the remodal so we would hear the cries for more money. But I digress....
I told the elders that what we have is a palace compaired to what they have. I was given the old - "We can't make a hall that stands out like the churches do, it has to blend in with the neighborhood it is in." I said that their hall stands out now because it is the dump of the neighborhood it is in. I was then told that if I wanted to send them a few dollars that would be ok as long as I did not neglect our own hall. Or I could ask Brooklyn to help them. I then said why don't we ask the congregation what they would like to do and then as a congregation make a dicision. I was told no and then told not to try and start something by talking to anyonw about this.
They told me that "We need the hall remodeled since other local halls were remodeled recently. Well the recently remdeled hall they were refering to housed three congregations that are in very affluent areas, $500,000 homes and up. Their hall was re-carpeted, and re-wallpapered about every six to eight months. Just so you know it took that hall four more years to actually get remodeled, I had left the borg by then and so when I was told,four years later, that they started their remodel project, I just laughed.
This came at a time when I was starting to have doubts and was a real turning point for me. Love among themselves my butt!