I once attended this book study where the conducter was an arrogant SOB. The congregation treated him like Moses though. Admired him for his long-service (it was a young congregation), his secular achievements, and for a superior command of English. Not surprisingly, he got away for his gruff demeanor because we must "bow before gray-headedness" blah blah.
Anyway, in Elder SOB's book study group, he had a habit of picking on people to answer questions. We'd answer the questions that were in the book. Problem is he felt a need to engage us on a higher intellectual level. So SOB would come up with really tough trivia questions or what he would like to think are "thought-provoking questions". And when the group was too timid to play his game (he does embarass you if you got the answer wrong), he'd start pointing at random bros and sisters and get them to answer.
Once, I was in one of those teenage moods with a lot of pent-up hostility, and I had to attend the bookstudy. SOB noticed that I hadn't contributed to the group's humiliation encouragement yet.
So he gleefully pointed at me and said, "Inq, why don't you tell us since you haven't participated yet."
I was secretly delighted that he'd pick on me in my angst. I kept mum, inviting stares from the brothers.
Annoyed, SOB barked, "Inq, I'm talking to you."
Then with an icy smile I said, "I'm sorry, but I didn't realize I'd raised my hand"
Some were already shaking their heads...at me, not him.
"I KNOW you didn't raise your hand. I'm CALLING on you to answer the question."
"Oh, I don't know" (I know, I know, kinda anti-climactic huh)
Boy, did I get into trouble with Dad that night.
This practice of picking on the sheep to answer was eventually abandoned when the Watchtower came up with an article on how meetings should be conducted. Even SOB knew his power had its limits lol.
INQ