i hope there is a reason for things sassy. i really do. then again maybe some people are just not built for living life in reality, dealing with things as they come and planning in spite of difficulties. this is my opportunity to prove that the lessons i've learned have not been for nothing, that i am strong, that i matter, that i'm attractive, that i'm intelligent and that i am worth more than i thought i was. there it is.
coolhandluke
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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coolhandluke
here is the thing: i don't think i want her back. she's been disrespectful to me. i deserve better than that. so no matter what she said or did, i'm done. and i'm okay with that. at the beginning i wanted to work it out. i don't anymore. it made me realize that i don't deserve the leftovers of energy. i don't deserve the scraps. i don't deserve the remains of the day. i've said it before - all i want in a relationship is to be loved, to be touched, to be appreciated, to be stimulated. moreover, that is what i want to give. but it has to be equal. i can't always be 80 and you be 20. i can't.
darth frosty: i'm gonna go find that book right now. thanks for the suggestion.
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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coolhandluke
agreed nowman. thanks
i don't know if she's repulsed by me. i don't know if im unattractive to her all of a sudden. maybe i fart in my sleep or snore really loudly. i dont know. it doesnt matter.
purps and GGG? thanks for the hugs. i need em
I too, was thinking though, that she may be going through a depression?! But even so, you don't treat someone you care about like this.
agreed. one day at a time. i hope to look back and have said that i did what i could.
like the spartan said to the hunchback after he betrayed him, "may you live forever"
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JK is here - bruised & sore - but back
by JK666 inhello friends,.
for those of you that do not know my situation, i am an alcoholic that fell off the wagon this weekend.
oh boy do i feel bad!
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coolhandluke
the fact that you are here right now being accountable speaks volumes. i have grown up with alcoholics in my family. what i have learned is that the more accountable they are, the more honest, the more successful. i think you fit into this category. pick yourself up. don't dwell. move forward. you can do it!
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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coolhandluke
thanks for the support though. i appreciate it
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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coolhandluke
thanks for the replies. it really doesnt matter what she does now or who she is with. you were right tim, the thing is that the connection is gone and has been gone for a little while. i tried to repair it and by her own admission she is no good at communicating, so the conection is goine and there is no desire on her part to repair it.
now its school, work, my investing and trying my best to be healthy and not wallow. i'll be fine and in many ways i learned a lot about what i should tolerate and what i need
"an honorable man knows when to walk away and accepts nothing less than what he deserves" ~ grey's anatomy.
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Am I a cool dude or what?
by sweetface2233 incheck out my new avatar!
so the opposite of a sweet face, but he's so adorable.
i love his nose!
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coolhandluke
anyone who tells a chick that he thinks she perceives herself as hot means that he thinks she is hot but waaaay out of his league and having to see her face reminds him that he is a douche and would never ever be able to pull someone who looked like her. but hey. what do i know? i've only had this penis 28 years
just my .02
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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coolhandluke
i'm sitting here finding it hard to type shaking in anger and feelings of betrayal. break up is one thing. betrayal another... especially with him
thank you for the advice. i promise to try to just move forward. it is incredibly difficult though
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How do you know...
by coolhandluke inif your so is cheating on you?
well, she's not my so anymore.
she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.
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coolhandluke
If your SO is cheating on you? Well, she's not my SO anymore. She decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship. She said that when she'd given all she had to her children that she didn't want to be touched, looked at, or anything. She just wanted to sit in the corner by herself. She especially didn't want to be intimate. Instead of wanting to work things out she thought it best to just end them. After some time and talking she admitted that it wasnt really my fault she just bit off more than she could chew.
I've tried to relieve her burdens by making sure she goes and gets manicures, pedicures, her hair done, etc. I have take her kids to the park while she naps as she works nights. I told her to take 2 weeks off of work as it was causing physical problems and that I'd pick up the financial slack from that. When she broke up with me she wanted me to go but couldn't afford the rent on her own. Initially I was going to leave without giving her a dime. But I decided that since my apartment wouldnt be ready until the beginning of next month that I'd stay and help but that she'd pay me her third in payments, as long as it takes.
I haven't seen her for 3 or 4 days. She avoids coming to the apartment when she knows that I'm there. Her ex who she shares two children with lives nearby. He's been much kinder to her the past few weeks and I had hoped that his humanity had kicked in and he'd turned over a new leaf but I just don't know. Is she with him? Are they intimate? Oh yeah one other thing, she would never tell him that I was living there and paying bills and helping care for her children. Weird? Or am I just looking for something to explain away a situation?
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Starting a New Thread - Movie Ratings
by joannadandy infirst my appologies - i was trying to make a reply in a thread and suddenly there was an error and it was gone.
so i shall have to start a new one.
coolhandluke said: i have this thing with nudity.
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hmmm. i posted something in response to you jo. i have no idea where it went