UPDATE (sort of)...Mom stopped by today to see my daughter (she lives about 30 miles from us). It was pretty obvious she hadn't received my letter yet, but it also seemed as if she hadn't written the letter I received from her and posted here.
I'm so confused. She was friendly in a reserved sort of way, brought gifts, gave me money to spend on my daughter, then wanted to take her to the store. Because she doesn't have a car seat, she asked to borrow my Jeep which does. I said, "Hey, I'll just drive you. I have to go down town anyway." So she decides to take her own car and meet us there. After picking up a few things at the health food store, she suggests going to the park, so we do and have a lovely time. She looked a little sad saying "goodbye" on her way back home and telling XOX (my daughter) she loved her. But that was it. Oh, except for asking if she could take her to a special once-a-year picnic held by some "friends" in the local congregation and telling me to think it over.
So, I don't know. I'll let you know what happens AFTER she reads my letter. At this point I have absolutely no clue...