TallTexan:
Now, let's see if I can go stick my foot in my mouth again...lol.
Awww, as long as your feet are not real furry...it's no big deal, lol. I''m spittin' hair out all the time. lol
Everyone's advice is usually good and helpful, you explained both ways very well by the 2nd post, that showed you are fair-minded, so don't worry. Read some more on the board and you'll surely say, Damn...can't believe he/she said that...glad I didn't!
On recording stuff : In an Elders meeting, according to their "Secret Elder's Manual"...recorders are not allowed under any circumstances. They would not like their ill-chosen words to come back and bite'em in the A$$ !
In a meeting like that of my own -- I did "wear a wire" without their knowledge...it helped me to reconstruct what everyone was saying, so I could do a transcript. I never had to "use" against them, but, I figured in case I needed to, I could get their attention.
However............here is something you might be very careful about what you DO with the recordings you make.
1. In a conversation...at least one of the persons involved, MUST be aware that it's being recorded.
2. If no one is aware...there MUST be an audible beep that can be heard by all parties, the interval is between 10 - 15 seconds between beeps,
3. Of course, both or all parties can agree to be recorded.
4. Here is the BIGGIE...if you allow other people (not on the recording) to hear the tapes...it could be considered as Wire-Tapping. This could be a FELONY.
5. If you were in a Court Case and told a judge you had recordings, it's OK, but, the Judge would have to make a ruling on whether you can use it and how.
So, be careful...
A footnote: Towards the end of the meeting...I heard and felt a SNAP ...the tape hit the end and shut-off ! I cannot believe they didn't figure it out, as soon as I heard it I started 'popping' my knuckles to divert their attention. I thought I was going to get into a wrestling match in that library ! lol