id say born ins who leave will have a much harder time finding acceptable friendships due to the learned high standards for people in general.
so Id say for me, im not going to turn all 'worldly' like as far as swearing up a storm though i do the hell and dam bit, and id never go back to smoking
it stinks and would flare up my allergies plus who can afford it. id not choose to be freinds with smokers for that reason, and i wouldnt choose certain types of people who i have no common intrests, like im not into country music, or hard rock, or beer, or football, or guns or tatoos, long hair,
or motorcycles. being so used to suited men and better dressed ladies, its hard t osee myself with those who dress farmer like.
id naturally gravitate to buisness like people into the arts, or, politics or golf clubs or sales people. as for the holidays?
I wont go all chrstmas thats for sure, but i will go to any party or event im invited to.
right now, the only people whom i associate with is my boring tv loving husband which isnt grand in any sense of the word, and my daughter occationally.
i have no job right now, hard to get one at my age with no education.
so i dont get out to meet people. so its going to be difficult for me at age 52, to find any freinds.
anyone else have that feeling?