I have mountains of sympathy for them. "But for the grace of God" I was very nearly one of them. I remember when my whole goal in life was to make my Bethel service a life-long career. That is what they encouraged in Entrants School. Thank goodness that I left while still young.
Plus, they are cult victims. Even the mean ones. They are responsible for their actions, but you got to also look into the factors that pushed them to make those choices.