As a person who has experienced both physical, and sexual abuse as a young person and now 60+,My opinion is that society as it is comming to grips with this problem of pedophillia(a rather recently developed word) that their is a tendency to swing too much(because of black&white thinking gut reactions) in the opposite direction initially and then become more pragmatic middle road and really looking at the problem and offer better solutions more in line with clear thinking.
So yes I think we are too harsh in our remedies and over state thing in an effort to be in harmony with what we percieve to be the vocal majority.
I think societies over reaction to some of these issues have tendancy to make the child feel more victimized and suffer because of this over reation from low self esteem more so than caused by the actual offence of abuse. This is my opinion and which doesn't really agree with Dawkins, I'm glad he give us some thing to think about that may go against our gut reaction to these issues
Richard Dawkins has his opinion which he is entitle to. He is brave to speak publically about this as it could hurt his reputation in the rather small mind of some that are quick to take offense. I'm sure he has well thought out his response to the subject and just take as the opinion of a rather smart insightful man and leave it at that.