the probleme and why we do talk about that is that being (always put so called / about physicaly) ugly is like being poor somehow and being beautiful is like being rich somehow, it brings the same kind of troubles and advantages with the same kind of people means those who gives too much credit to the riche/beautiful and looking down on the poor/ugly or condescendingly even pity ... (not sure it's always concious) and those can be whatever (poor or rich / ugly or beautifull) ... our world is based on appearance and we just can't escape it most of the time cause too much people rely on that and some think it help to just follow the flow as it does have REAL effects on MOST of aspects of life (but never on TRUE LOVE) and it can mislead the feeling of love (every kind : lover / friendchip - FAKE by then) ... it's just a pitty ... it doesn't help this world to become a better one ... We are not even close !!!
Thinking that "so called" ugly people do have a bad self esteem is just wrong : I DO REMEMBER ... my ego was and is still quite big believe me. My statement was just this I DON'T CARE, WHO ARE YOU TO THINK YOU CAN MAKE ME FEEL BAD BECAUSE OF THAT ? Those who do suffer about it are those who buy too much into the system, of course that way they don't help themself ... (you can't rely on others about self-esteem - it's all about what you know about yourself - now you know more than everything and main things are related to physical aspect or not ...)