A while back, an aquaintance of mine told me that he liked to visit prostitutes. Although we weren't that close, I'd worked on and off with him over the years. I knew his wife too and would often see her around town.
He'd told me that when he had something to celebrate, like his birthday or maybe a commercial win, he and a pal of his would do the pubs and clubs first and then go kerb crawling until they found a pair of street girls who would play the swopsy's scene. He said it was excellent fun, a great crack, and of course, going whoring was not like being unfaithful....not like having an affair or anything like that.
Huh?
Well, that's the way he is. However, since he told me all this I have had no desire to have anything more to do with him. I just feel repelled. He doesn't live near to us anymore, so I no longer see him around. In fact, when he contacted me to ask if he and his wife could come visit, I just froze him out. I just don't want a guy like that in my home. I don't want him in my life!
There's a part of me that feels as though I'm being priggish, but I still don't want any contact even if I am being judgemental. It's just an instinctive reaction that I feel.
Am I being priggish?
Englishman.