I mean - when we were witnesses we always thought that is what one who 'leaves Jehovah' does - goes right out and becomes evil incarnate.
Is that what you did? Or do you live a life similar to what you did as a witness? On a scale of 1-10, how wicked would you be considered if the witnesses were making the call on your current lifestyle ? Do not base it on how they treat you - but if they really knew how you live.
I'll go first - I still live by the same morals as before - but I do b-days now and course no service or meetings - I would say they would rate me a