WOW !!!
You have done a lot. Hopefully, you both can get out with minimal damage.
She talked about recent experiences she has had that opened her eyes to the fact that non-JWs are so loving and kind - and how they were the direct opposite of what the Society told us they were.
That is the one single-most important fact that caused most of us to begin searching for the real truth about the truth.
The WTBTS's literature constantly refer to the wonderful 'love' among the brothers. If that is true, why have 50% of JW's departed over the past 25 years ?
Don't believe it?
Get the yearly reports for the past 25 years.
Add the number of baptisms for the last 25 years to the number of active JW's 25 years ago. Take that figure and subtract the number of JW's active now. It is an eye-opener!
When you add in some deaths the figure goes even higher.
If the Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses was really providing its followers spiritual food at the proper time through the WT publications, why would 50% walk away from it?
Why are so many unsatisfied with the wholesome and nutritious food from the GB?
If the elders were doing their assigned tasks, why are so many falling away?
An inspection of Ephesians 4:11-14 tells us what proper nourishment will do for believers:
*** Rbi8 Ephesians 4:11-14 ***11 And he gave some as apostles, some as prophets, some as evangelizers, some as shepherds and teachers, 12 with a view to the readjustment of the holy ones, for ministerial work, for the building up of the body of the Christ, 13 until we all attain to the oneness in the faith and in the accurate knowledge of the Son of God, to a full-grown man, to the measure of stature that belongs to the fullness of the Christ; 14 in order that we should no longer be babes, tossed about as by waves and carried hither and thither by every wind of teaching by means of the trickery of men, by means of cunning in contriving error.
When the dubs go door to door they claim they are looking for 'sheeplike ones'. The reality is they are looking for people who will accept their apostate teachings without questioning anything during the indoctrination process. If a study is familiar with the bible and asks thought-provoking questions about the WT teachings, doctrinal changes, unfulfilled prophecies regarding the end of the world - 1914, 1925, 1975, etc. the dubs will declare the student is not humble and will break off the study. If all JW converts are really 'sheeplike' it is hard to understand why 50% of them will leave with the knowledge they will be called immoral, unrepentant sinners or worse yet, apostates because that is the only 2 reasons given for anyone leaving. Sad to admit, but most who leave become very bitter against God because they equate Him with the demonised WTBTS/JW cult and its DF'ing program. When a JW questions any of the actions, decisions or reversals that are rampant within the WTBTS, he/she is accused of complaining and rebelling against God. So when many become disillusioned with the WTS they also become angry with God. If it is the truth and they are the voice of God as the Governing Body claims, why do many who were taking in so much accurate knowledge and eaten so much good spiritual food become involved in the sins of the world? I am sure what I have said is not popular or politically correct but facts are facts and the WTBTS and its apostate Governing Body of JW's do not have bible facts and truths to share with anyone. because they are a business masquerading as a benevolent and loving religion. I refuse to work for a company with a 50% turnover rate.