Are JW's Self-righteous?

by Honesty 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • shera
    shera
    How could we have been so stupid?

    No one was being stupid,we all wanted to beleive in something that sounded good and loving.Well I did,at first,then things don't add up,then our minds start to think....then the guilt kicks in and fear.All that garbage that was pushed and pushed into our minds,dosn't just get up and leave our brains over night.

    Step by step we all go threw emountions we need to,to heal.

    Another thing anyone who realizes and leaves are not stupid.

    Here is a hug for you Honesty...*********hugs********** Nothing stupid about you! You're here!

  • Golf
    Golf

    Without question!!!!!!!!


    Golf

  • urbanized
    urbanized

    yeah, how can you not be self-righteous when you're a separatist? if you don't naturally feel that because of your special status as a member of the world's one true religion, then i think you end up with an inflated sense of self-righteousness that you have to kind of force on yourself, as self-defense.

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free

    Yes, the JW's are the most self righteous people I've ever met, and they also have the least justification for their attitude. They boast about their honesty, yet they are experts at beating the tax man. (until I turned one of them in). They're also very accomplished at defrauding less popular ones in the congregation. I was cheated out of several thousand dollars but I had to eat the loss because the "brother" that did it was a MS who employed many pioneers™, but I was nothing. The elders refused to even hear about it. And, of course, you're not allowed to take a brother™ to court.

    Ever ask an elder a question that could put him or the society on the spot? Were you even allowed to finish the question, or even a single sentence without interruption? NO! The pompous blowhard who's in love with the sound of his own voice will give you an answer, or shout you down, before you have a chance to say anything. This tactic is often employed by stupid people, which is what the majority of elders are.

    Their doctrines are lies. They protect child molesters. They condemn the UN as a tool of Satan but align themselves with it anyways.

    They read their bibles for years, even decades, yet after all that reading and studying still have no clue of what is right or wrong unless it's spoon fed to them by their whorish mother watchtower.

    W

  • Doubtfully Yours
    Doubtfully Yours

    I think that would qualify for "Understatement Of The Year" award.

    Of course JWs are among the most self-righteous people on earth!

    DY

  • Goldminer
    Goldminer

    I believe most of them are and very few are truly humble people.Almost everybody has a story or two(ok,many stories) about some self-righteous jw.The sad part is they don't even realize they are,just living in their bubble of righteousness.

    Goldminer

  • Undecided
    Undecided

    I never felt that way, because I never was righteous. I had done things that would condem me almost all my life. Not dishonest things but mostly sexual thoughts and having worldly friends and such. I went to a porn movie once while the PO. I flirted with my female work mates but never had sex with them. I just didn't measure up to a perfect JW. I guess that was why it was so easy for me to leave, I wouldn't have survived the big A anyway.

    Ken P.

  • LongHairGal
    LongHairGal

    Of course they are self-righteous. Why do you think it is impossible for them to admit they were wrong about anything?

    Because they are so self-righteous (and service has a lot to do with this, by the way) no criticism of them is thought to be valid. Because they are out in the field that covers a multitude of sins and faults in the people there. Just being who they are and doing their "thing" makes up for any bad.

  • jaffacake
    jaffacake

    Honesty, yes this reminds me of an essay I saved - it applies to those who think it is possible to work for salvation, or earn salvation, which of course is anti-biblical. Sorry its a bit long. Let me know if anyone wants the full version. That is what I believe the Bible means by self righteous:

    So how can you, a sinner, stand justified before God?

    And behold, a certain lawyer stood up and put Him to the test, saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" And He said to him, "What is written in the Law? How does it read to you?" And he answered and said, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself." And He said to him, "You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live." (Luke 10:25-28, NASB)

    "Do this and you will live." Keep God's law perfectly, never sin, and always obey Him in everything with all of yourself. Your heart, soul, strength, and mind must be perfectly expended in obedient love to God and to your neighbor. No losing heart in time of trial. No weakness in work. No wandering thoughts leading to sin. Every fiber of your being expended in love for God and this perfectly. "Do this and you will live." This is the perfect and holy law of the perfect and holy God. But is this good news? Did the lawyer who answered the Lord rejoice in this? Did he go away feeling self-righteous, thinking that he certainly had a good standing before God? After all, he was trying his very best to obey these two great commandments.

    Note the next verse. (But wishing to justify himself, he said to Jesus, "and who is my neighbor?" John 10:29, NASB) Self-righteousness raises it's ugly head here. "Wishing to justify himself." But note, God's law is not based on "our best efforts" or "our good intentions" to keep it. You really, truly have to keep it! Perfectly! "Do this, and you will live." Not "Try to do this." Not "Give it your best shot." No, one single failure, one disobedient act, one sinful thought, one omission of any kind, one failure is fatal. Yet this expert in the law was "wishing to justify himself."

    In case you remain unconvinced let's look at another man "wishing to justify himself" in his own self-righteousness.

    And as He [Jesus] was setting out on a journey, a man ran up to Him and knelt before Him, and began asking Him, "Good Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" And Jesus said to him, "Why do you call Me good? No one is good except God alone. "You know the commandments, 'Do not murder, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and mother.'" And he said to Him, "Teacher, I have kept all these things from my youth up." And looking at him, Jesus felt a love for him, and said to him, "One thing you lack: go and sell all you possess, and give to the poor, and you shall have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me." But at these words his face fell, and he went away grieved, for he was one who owned much property. (Mark 10:17-22, NASB)

    The Lord of the universe rehearsed with this man the requirements of the Law. What is his answer? "I have kept all these things from my youth up." Wrong! He missed it. He didn't get it. His eyes were blind, his heart was cold. He did not hear the Lord that day, but wishing to justify himself, he condemned himself by his own words.

    Now I wonder, do you hear the Lord right now? "Do not murder (or be angry with your brother without cause). Do not commit adultery (or look lustfully on another). Do not steal (or envy another). Do not bear false witness (or lie)." Can you even meet the first requirement of the law mentioned here, let alone law upon law upon law?

    Don't think that Jesus was giving the man an opportunity to justify himself before God through obeying these laws. The Lord here was not implying that the man had actually followed these nor could he follow them. Jesus was using the law to demonstrate to the rich man his utter sinfulness; his total, complete poverty of any righteousness, and thus His need of a savior. He had broken every one of these commandments (as we all have - either in thought or in deed). But did the man hear? Did he really hear what the Lord said? No, even though he had physical ears and heard Jesus' words, God had not yet given him "eyes to see and ears to hear". No, he thought he had kept these commandments of God. He remained in darkness. Instead of answering "I have broken each of these countless times. How can I find righteousness before God? God, be merciful to me the sinner!" Instead of that kind of answer, he broadcasts his spiritual blindness. "Teacher, I have kept all these from my youth up."

    I expect that some of the people reading this are like these men. You wish to justify yourself in the sight of God. Your answer to the Lord would run along the same lines and that answer would miss the mark of God's righteousness to your damnation. Instead of justifying yourself, you condemn yourself by your own words.

    If the Lord were to question you now, "Why should I let you into heaven?" Will you venture your answer by starting your sentence with "I...". Or perhaps you would even be bold enough to say, "Lord, I...". You are seeking to justify yourself. You are standing on your own righteousness. To do so, even in part, even in small part, is to be self-righteous and self- condemning. The road to hell starts in your own heart with that one little word "I". I hope and pray that this tiny word leading to an eternity of separation from God would not be found on any of your lips. Oh that the Lord would open your eyes and ears today that you would hear His words and see your condition as it is.

    Because by the works of the Law no flesh will be justified in His sight; for through the law comes the knowledge of sin. (Romans 3:20, NASB)

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