Jealousy can kill a relationship!!!

by ButtLight 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • ButtLight
    ButtLight

    LOL IP, we will be playing pool in about 2 months, and damn sure I will kick his ass! Ya want to come too?

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC

    you don know how much I'd love to be there bl. Maybe it will happen.

  • JH
    JH

    I'll be there....for sure

    Buttlight is my friend.....

  • Golden Girl
    Golden Girl

    So he is just telling you that if he ever sees an old school mate(Girl) and sits down with her ..you should be jealous..because HE has bad intentions?

    I was told one time Jealousy is built on what you yourself would do or feel in the same situation. So he must think you'd be thinking the same as him if an old girl school friend showed up..

    Does this make any sense?

    The jealousy thing has to be based on his OWN emotions as those are the only ones he really knows..he is not you therefore doesn't know what you were feeling..He just knows what HE would do in that situation!!! Therefore he thinks you would do it too!...He's a Bad Boy!

    Snoozy..a Junior Psycologist!

  • talesin
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    In the infamous words of the lovely Neil Sedaka:

    Turn on your butt-light!
    Let it shine whereever you go
    Let it make a happy glow
    For all the world to see

    Turn on your butt-light!
    In the middle of a young boy's dream
    Don't wake me up too soon
    Gonna take a ride across the moon
    You and me

    Turn on you butt-light now!

    Turn on you butt-light! now!

    <not to be confused with new light>....

    CG

  • ButtLight
    ButtLight

    Just got a chance to read all the comments, and thanks for all the support! This was far from the first time of jealousy, and Im sure it wont be the last. Unfortunatly, he has been cheated on twice, and thats why I think he doesnt trust me! Oh well, today is a new day!

  • unbeliever
    unbeliever

    But you did not cheat on him. I am very sympathetic to what he has been through. My first love burned me bad. It made me extra super cautious for a long time. Still I did not hold what he did against my next serious relationship. You have not given him a reason to distrust you. I would not want to live like that wondering when the next jealous outburst is going to come. I am not advising you to leave him. Far from it but he has issues he needs to deal with. Maybe counseling will help him. Betrayal is a hard thing to get over.

  • Es
    Es

    That suxs butlight! I would hate that if my parnter didnt trust me enought to chat to an old male friend. es

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