by ButtLight 28 Replies latest jw friends
Trust me my Husband used to be the same way.
Even if I was nice to a guy. Or said Hi to another. I looked at him told him what I am about. I told him I trust him drunk in a hot tub with 10 naked playboy playmates and I know he would not do anything. I said I think I deserve the same trust level. Right then and there it ended....the Jealousy that is.
Brooke
what if the shoe had been on the other foot?
Still, Im not a jealous person! If he would talk to some other girl, i would be ok with it! Now if he was flirting, and i could see it that would be a different story!
stilla
Ditch her,,, this is not high school.
Love is not supposed to leave you sick and unable to eat. We don't attack the folks we love, even if they have erred. If she doesn't trust you and is possessive, what does that say about your relationship?
Abuse is abuse. If a woman is jealous and possessive of her partner, she has issues. Men deserve to feel safe just as much as we women do. Emotional and verbal abuse is just as damaging as physical ,,,, no, we may not see the scars and bruises, but they are there, and they are deep. And yes, it does kill,,, it kills the spirit, and the love, if nothing else. Women can also be vicious physical abusers, though it is not as common for obvious reasons.
We are exJehovah's Witnesses ... life is too short, and we have been emotionally abused enough.
tal
Okay, I realize that question was for BL, but well, it's true. There might be a guy reading this thread at this very moment who is being abused, and feels like he can't reach out for help.
t
Sorry folks - my wife has issues and is extremely jealous person - i AM NOT AND YET HAVE REASON TO BE- but she takes my lack of jealousy as a sign that I do not care - Crazy. I know not all women are the same but it and the WTBTS have poisoned my view of women
very true tal
but when you are taken advantageded of, it feels like shit! Especialy when you did no wrong! I was just being nice to the guy, cause we graduated together! I sat with him and talked about high school for god sake!
He goes and plays pool, and expects you to stay alone in your corner.....
JH, how could you go do something like that to a nice person like buttlight?
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