Letter to my mom

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  • zugzwang
    zugzwang

    So my mom wrote me a letter begging me to start going to the meetings again. What follows is my response to her. Your comments are welcome but I am mostly posting this for my own "peace of mind."

    Dear Mother,

    You just don't get it. IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU! If you would stop for a minute and ask yourself why your son no longer believes then you might learn something. The reasons why the WTS CANNOT have God's backing are numerous. The long history of failed and false prophecies, the doctrinal flip flops, the cover up of pedaphilia in the organization, the association with the United Nations. Do you even know about that?! For 10 years the WTS was a part of the United Nations! What they refer to as the "Scarlet Colored Beast" of Revelation. That is a documented fact. Have you even heard about that? Of course not, because the WTS doesn't want you to know. If you want peace of mind GET ALL OF THE FACTS! The WTS has LIED to you all of your life. If you want to understand the truth about "the truth" then you can't just listen to what the WTS tells you. They don't want you to read "apostate" literature because they know if you do you will learn facts about them that they don't want you to know. Do you know the real reason why the WTS switched to the donation arrangement? It's not the reason they gave us. Do you know the real reason for the "new light" about "this generation" spoken about by Jesus? It's not the reason they gave us. I'm sorry if you choose to live in a delusional reality for the sake of your "peace of mind." But I can't. That is why I had the depression all those years. I was trying to still believe something that I absolutely knew COULD NOT be true. But now I have come through that and I know the WTS is false. It has nothing to do with me or my experience at Bethel or my divorce. If I didn't even exist the WTS would still be a fraud. You had your opportunity to explain to me your beliefs. You had that opportunity the first 16 years of my life. At that time your explanation made sense to me, but now I am aware of additional information that proves those beliefs were wrong. Now it is only fair that you allow me an opportunity to share my beliefs with you. But you won't even consider the evidence. That is your choice, but I have made a different choice. My choice is to look at the facts, the facts the WTS does not want me to know about. I know you can't understand this. You think it is depression caused by the Devil that is making me think this way. But that is not the case. My decisions are based on completely rational thinking and having all of the facts. If your beliefs bring you comfort and hope then by all means hang on to them. But that doesn't make what you believe the truth. You should follow the WTS' own admonition. In the book "The Truth that Leads to Eternal Life" the WTS says: "We need to examine, not only what we personally believe, but also what is taught by any religious organization with which we may be associated. Are its teachings in full harmony with God?s Word, or are they based on the traditions of men? If we are lovers of the truth, there is nothing to fear from such an examination." And 2 Corinthians 13:5 tells us to "keep testing whether you are in the faith." To "keep testing" means that just because at one time it seemed you knew "the truth" doesn't mean that you don't need to continue to examine your beliefs. Again, I will tell you as I have told you in the past, if you knew all of the facts you would feel the same way I do. You would see the lies and deception and would not be able to accept that as being from God. I know you will not listen to me because that is what the WTS has taught you to do, you have been indoctrinated to ignore any evidence that speaks contrary to your beliefs. But don't ignore the WTS' own advice. Remember, they said to examine your own religion. I would love to help you do that, but you have to let me. Remember, I was "the good kid." The one who always went to meetings, who went in service, who became a ministerial servant, who pioneered for 4 years and served at Bethel for 2 years. Why would I change course unless I knew something concrete about the WTS that caused me to change course. Don't you want to know and to understand what I am aware of that has led me to this choice? I gave my everything to the WTS, there must be some pretty major reasons why I left, don't you think? I could give you reason after reason after reason why it is IMPOSSIBLE for the WTS to be what it claims to be. But you refuse to listen. All you say is I need to go to the meetings and listen. Well before that could ever happen you need to sit down and listen to all of the reasons why the WTS is wrong. Are you willing to do that? I gave you and dad 16 years to explain to me your view and I spent another 11 years after that accepting that view. Will you give me even so much as 1 day to explain to you my view? That is not an unusual or unreasonable request. I hope you will consider it.

    Love,

    Your Son

  • 4JWY
    4JWY

    (((zugz)))

    Don't give up - my son with his dissonance and no fear to be completely honest in sharing with us, was instrumental in causing both myself and his dad to take our leave from the borg. I'd been a 40 year slave.

    I had been researching myself to help explain to his grandfather why we were allowing him to make a decision, on his own, regarding his "religion". Found a great AWAKE article - August 8, 1988 - with the cover title: IS YOUR RELIGION A MATTER OF CHOICE OR CHANCE?

    The whole first four articles are great to get a JW see that it's not JUST,as they believe, people of "the world" that should be examining their beliefs/birth religion. The title's are: Should your birthplace determine your religion?.....Early Christianity not a matter of chance.......Do you choose -or Let others choose for you?....

    I shared this article with my dad and he was dumbfounded when he read it and realized it's info could be applied to ANYONE - his first question to me was, "Did the boys read this??" Worried, that they would take off with the info and split the org if they had. Well, duh....... I then went over the article with two elders, separately, and they were stymied for a reply.

    I'm sorry I don't have the ability to post the article - perhaps someone can help out and do so.

    All the best to you,

    4JWY

  • Alleymom
    Alleymom

    4JWY---

    Here is the first article:

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    g88 8/8 pp. 3-4 Should Your Birthplace Determine Your Religion? ***

    Should

    Your Birthplace Determine Your Religion?

    THE way you speak and the way you eat; the way you dress and the way you sleep?all of that, and much more, may well depend on where you were born. Although we may be unaware of it, our roots affect us throughout our lives, molding our customs, our thinking, and our beliefs.

    María, a Spaniard, is a Catholic because she was born in Catholic Spain. Martin is a Lutheran Protestant because he was born in Lübeck in northern Germany. Abdullam was born in West Beirut, so he is a Muslim.

    Today, they, together with millions of others like them, adhere to their respective religions. The fact is that people often owe their religion to nothing more than geography and quirks of history. Unknown to them, their religion may have been decided by the whim of a political ruler centuries ago.

    This was the case with Lisette, born in a village in the Federal Republic of Germany?s Black Forest. She was baptized as a Lutheran because for generations everybody in that part of her village was a loyal subject of the duke of Württemberg, a Protestant. Had she been born just a short distance down the road, she would have been a staunch Catholic because that part of the village was the domain of a Catholic ruler.

    These artificial religious barriers date from the time of the Reformation in the 16th century. After a long and violent period of religious upheaval, it was agreed that each prince should determine the religion practiced in his domain. The argument was, Since men cannot agree, the monarch must decide.

    Some unfortunate villagers found themselves on a religious merry-go-round as consecutive rulers changed religious horses. Other towns were arbitrarily divided on religion because the regional frontier happened to go through the town.

    Not all rulers joined the Protestant bandwagon for pious reasons. Henry VIII of England, a former prominent defender of the Catholic faith, was annoyed when the pope refused to grant him a divorce from his first wife. His solution was simple. He broke with Rome and made himself the head of the Church of England, expecting his subjects to follow suit dutifully, which most of them eventually did.

    Occasionally, whole countries were "converted" by missionaries who appeared close on the heels of foreign invaders. In Mexico the first Franciscan friars arrived a few years after the Spanish conquest. They claimed to have baptized more than five million natives in just 30 years, even though at first they did not speak the indigenous languages. This national conversion was described by one historian as "an extraordinary mixture of force, cruelty, stupidity and greed, redeemed by occasional flashes of imagination and charity." Thus the European powers of the day cut up the world religiously as well as politically.

    Centuries earlier the Muslim conquests of North Africa, the Middle East, and large areas of Asia led to the vast majority of the people in these lands becoming Muslims.

    Today, the historical reasons for the religious divisions of mankind are largely forgotten; nevertheless, most people remain in the religion of their birthplace. But should the religion of our "choice" be left to chance? Should religion be a mere hand-me-down? Or should it result from a deliberate, rational decision? A look at Christianity in the first century will help to answer these questions.

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    Henry VIII decided the religion of millions

  • Alleymom
    Alleymom

    Article #2 ---

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    g88 8/8 pp. 5-7 Early Christianity Not a Matter of Chance ***

    Early

    Christianity Not a Matter of Chance

    IN THE first century, there were gods galore and gods for every taste. From the cradle to the grave, citizens of the Roman Empire counted on gods and goddesses to succor and protect them.

    Cuba

    cared for the newborn baby, and Ossipago strengthened the toddler?s bones. Adeona guided his first steps, and Fabulinus taught him to speak. In battle he would be protected by Mars. When he got sick, Aesculapius would care for him. When he died, he would be watched over by Orcus, god of the underworld.

    Each prominent city and tribe could boast its patron god, and incense was daily offered to the Roman emperor, himself considered a god incarnate. Oriental deities were in vogue, and temples were erected in honor of Mithras, Isis, and Osiris. Even the Jews, who professed to worship the invisible almighty God, were hopelessly divided into numerous religious sects.

    At that moment in history, amid all that religious confusion, Jesus Christ appeared. He taught something new: a universal religion, transcending racial and national distinctions; a religion based on the truth about the almighty God, the truth that could set men free from bondage to superstition and falsehood. (John 8:32) As he explained to Pilate: "For this I have been born, and for this I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth." (John 18:37) How did he accomplish this enormous task?

    Preaching

    to "the Poor in Spirit"

    It has been observed that there are basically two methods of proselytizing on a large scale. One is to evangelize the populace in general and then work upward from the common people. Another is to aim at the elite, or even at individuals at the head of the elite, and then work downward by authority or by force. This latter method, so favored by Catholic, Protestant, and Orthodox churches, was not even contemplated by Jesus and his followers.

    From the outset of his public ministry, Jesus explained that he was going to direct his attention to "the poor in spirit" or, literally, the "beggars for the spirit." These were the humble folk who were hungering for righteousness, who were "conscious of their spiritual need."?Matthew 5:3, King James Version; New World Translation Reference Bible, footnote.

    Thus, after Jesus? apostles returned from a preaching campaign, Christ said: "I publicly praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and intellectual ones and have revealed them to babes." (Matthew 11:25) The bulk of his preaching work was done in Galilee, homeland of humble fishermen and farmers, rather than in Judea, where the Pharisees and Jewish aristocrats had their stronghold.

    Jesus himself came from Nazareth, an obscure village that had never produced anyone of importance. "Can anything good come out of Nazareth?" asked Nathanael. (John 1:46) But what he heard and saw enabled him to overcome this regional prejudice because he had an open mind. On the other hand, the haughty Pharisees boasted: "Not one of the rulers or of the Pharisees has put faith in him, has he?"?John 7:48.

    Christian

    Faith Not Left to Chance

    Jesus? goal was to reach the heart and convince the mind. He taught his disciples to search out deserving individuals and to stay in the homes of these long enough for them to become sincere believers?if such was their desire. Some in a Samaritan village who listened to Christ?s teaching said: "We have heard for ourselves and we know that this man is for a certainty the savior of the world."?John 4:42.

    Each convert to Christianity had to make a rational choice after listening and meditating on what he had heard. He needed to have a firm conviction because opposition had to be faced. All the early disciples were expelled from the synagogue, which meant being ostracized by the local community.

    Furthermore, each disciple felt obligated to defend his newfound belief and share it with others. Celsus, a second-century critic of Christianity, made it a matter of mockery that "labourers, shoemakers, farmers, the most uninformed and clownish of men, should be zealous preachers of the Gospel."?Compare John 9:24-34.

    This method of conversion, together with the proselytizing zeal of the converts, resulted in the rapid spread of Christianity. Soon it became an international rather than a regional religion. Jesus had specifically told his followers to preach "to the most distant part of the earth."?Acts 1:8.

    True, the first disciples were Jewish, and the initial conversions were among Jews, according to God?s purpose. Jerusalem became the center where the apostles convened to direct the fledgling church. Because of this, the Christians were often mistakenly maligned as Jews by people of the first century, even though the Jews were the most ardent persecutors of Christians. And a Roman historian wrote Christianity off as a mischievous superstition.

    Peter, before baptizing the first non-Jew, declared: "For a certainty I perceive that God is not partial, but in every nation the man that fears him and works righteousness is acceptable to him." (Acts 10:34, 35) Thus, the Christians? zeal, fired by an unwavering faith, carried the message of Christ throughout the Roman Empire. Persecution could not stamp out these Christians, and many died because they would not reject this religion of their choice. Their enthusiasm and devotion are a far cry from the apathy in 20th-century Christendom.

    Could it be that this spirit is missing because relatively few have made a conscious choice in the matter of faith? If religion still matters to you, why not consider seriously the following article?

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    Ancient Rome worshiped many gods, such as Mars, the god of war; Jupiter, the chief Roman god; and Aesculapius, the god of medicine

    Mars

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    Drawing based on Mansell Collection

    Jupiter

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    Drawing based on a display, British Museum

    Aesculapius

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    Drawing based on a display, National Archaeological Museum, Athens

  • tweety
    tweety

    zugzwang, as I read your letter to your mother...you are pleading with her to see your side of things. That was touching to read you trying to reach her. Maybe something that you wrote, might make her think or wonder. You never know!

    Good Luck! Dee

  • Alleymom
    Alleymom

    Article #3 ---

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    g88 8/8 pp. 7-11 Do You Choose?Or Let Others Choose for You? ***

    Do

    You Choose?Or Let Others Choose for You?

    UNTIL he was eight years old, Pedro worshiped Maleiwa, supposed creator of man and maker of the earth. He was afraid of Yolujá, said to be the harbinger of all evil and disease, and he sought to avoid the malevolent designs of Pulowi, alleged goddess of the underworld.

    Pedro was a Guajiro, one of the many Indian tribes of Venezuela. He followed the traditional religion of his ancestors until one day the local schoolteacher arranged for him to be baptized?as a Catholic.

    "Nobody consulted me, and I knew nothing about my new religion," Pedro explained. "But I realized that it would not be difficult to adopt this new faith, which required no significant changes in my daily conduct. I was faithful to my new religion, as I always went to Mass sometime in December."

    Despite belonging to two different religions, Pedro had not made a conscious choice in either case. The choice was made for him by others. His experience has been repeated countless times over the centuries. In fact, relatively few of the five billion people alive today have made a deliberate choice in the matter of religion. Their religion is usually something that was inherited, much like their appearance, their traits, or the home where they live.

    They

    Made Their Own Choice

    But is what we inherit always the best? We may try to improve our appearance as best we can. We may strive to better the home that our parents may have left us. We may even fight hard to overcome undesirable traits that we have inherited.

    For this reason, throughout the earth there are some who are taking a second look at the religion they have inherited from their forefathers. Instead of considering this a betrayal of a family tradition that must be cherished unquestioningly, their spiritual longing has moved them to search for something better. This was the case with Hiroko, whose father was a Buddhist priest at Myokyo Temple, Japan.

    "When I was a child, during the coldest nights of winter, I used to trudge up and down the snowbound streets of our village carrying a lantern," Hiroko explains. "Father would walk in front, beating a drum and chanting sutras. From an early age, self-mortification rites and Buddhist ritual were a part of my life."

    Nevertheless, Hiroko was unhappy with her inherited religion. "I could not find even one satisfying answer to the many questions I had. The posthumous changing of names of the dead, the tombstones that were treated as living beings as soon as sutras were chanted over them, the paper charms that were supposed to protect a believer magically, and many other temple ceremonies genuinely puzzled me.

    "I was told that we belonged to Buddhism?s most enlightened sect. And yet, all my questions were still left unanswered. I was convinced that there must be something, somewhere. My hope was to examine freely a religion that would provide me with all the answers." Hiroko wandered from one oriental religion to another without finding satisfaction. Finally, with the help of Jehovah?s Witnesses, she learned from the Bible about the almighty God, the One who created heaven and earth, and she also discovered the answers to her childhood questions.

    In her case, the words of the prophet Jeremiah were literally fulfilled: "When you seek me, you shall find me; if you search with all your heart, I will let you find me, says the LORD."?Jeremiah 29:13, 14, The New English Bible.

    Hiroko felt that it was worthwhile to make her own choice, even though it differed from that of her parents. "I am overjoyed at finding enlightenment, and now I do not have the nagging questions and anxieties that plagued me for so many years," she explains. But whether you are happy with your present religion or not, it still behooves you to make a choice.

    Why

    a Choice Should Be Made

    Most of us, if we stopped to think about it, would agree that religion is something that is too important to be left to chance. Why, even in everyday matters, we try to control our own lives as much as possible. Who wants to be just a victim of circumstances?

    If you had a bad headache, would you quickly swallow a couple of pills found among a pile of assorted medicines without first looking carefully at the label?

    If you were choosing new clothing, would you grab the first suit that came to hand in the store, blithely assuming that it would no doubt fit you exactly?

    If you were purchasing a secondhand car, would you drive it away without even checking the engine?

    ?Only the foolhardy would do that,? you may think. Such matters should not be taken lightly. And yet, for many of us one of life?s most crucial decisions?which religion we should profess?has been decided for us by chance, by long-forgotten quirks of history, and by place of birth.

    Would it not be wise to ask yourself: ?To what do I owe my religion? Was it a hand-me-down that I have never questioned? Or did I make a deliberate, rational choice?? Asking such questions is the very thing that the Bible urges us to do. The apostle Paul admonished the Corinthians to ?keep testing whether they were in the faith, to keep proving what they themselves were.??2 Corinthians 13:5.

    On the other hand, some were moved to reconsider their religious upbringing. The Bible mentions a young man named Timothy whose mother and grandmother brought him up as a Jew in harmony with the Scriptures. At some point they adjusted their thinking to become Christians. Years later Paul reminded him of what he had ?learned and been persuaded to believe.? (2 Timothy 3:14) Thus Timothy was encouraged to remain in the Christian faith that he had accepted, after he himself had made a thorough examination.

    Sergius Paulus was a Roman provincial governor in Cyprus who doubtless paid homage to some of the Roman gods. After listening to the preaching of Paul, however, "he became a believer, deeply impressed by what he learned about the Lord."?Acts 13:12, NE.

    In both cases a deliberate choice was made after a thorough examination based on God?s Word. Why not imitate the course of Sergius Paulus and Timothy? One changed his religion, the other did not; but both were rewarded by personally finding the truth. Nevertheless, because of tradition, fear, or prejudice, some may feel reticent about taking such a step.

    The

    Challenge of Making a Choice

    Religious traditions die hard, and many find comfort in age-old customs and creeds. "Once a Catholic, always a Catholic," some may say. Perhaps you feel the same way about your faith, preferring the traditional to the unknown. Certainly, it would be unwise to discard any tradition outright before analyzing its worth. Paul told the Thessalonian Christians to ?hold fast to the traditions which they had learned.? (2 Thessalonians 2:15, NE) On the other hand, Jesus warned that religious traditions can alienate us from God, invalidating his Word, the Bible. (Matthew 15:6) Tradition cannot always be trusted.

    As knowledge increases, traditional procedures are often modified or even replaced in fields such as medicine, science, and technology. In these areas most people have an open mind, which is conducive to betterment. Even though we may think that our religious tradition is of divine origin, the Bible warns us "not [to] believe every inspired expression" but, rather, to "test the inspired expressions to see whether they originate with God." (1 John 4:1) It recommends that we "make sure of all things; hold fast to what is fine." (1 Thessalonians 5:21) Worthwhile traditions will always hold up under such scrutiny.

    Another obstacle to making a choice in matters of religion is fear. "I never discuss religion or politics!" is a common remark. Fear of discovering that we have been misled or fear of what others may think are powerful excuses for doing nothing. In Jesus? day there were many who recognized the worth of his teaching but held back from acknowledging him as the Messiah "for fear of being banned from the synagogue. For they valued their reputation with men rather than the honour which comes from God."?John 12:42, 43, NE.

    Those people in Jesus? day lost the unique opportunity of being disciples of Christ because they yielded to the pressures of that narrow-minded religious community. True, it takes courage to swim against the current. To be different is never easy. But if you defer making a choice, inevitably others will choose for you.

    Prejudice against anything "foreign" can also hinder those who wish to make an impartial examination. In Jesus? day the Messiah was looked down upon for being a Nazarene and scorned for being a Galilean. Twentieth-century prejudice is similar.?John 1:46; 7:52.

    "That is just one of those newfangled American religions!" This was Ricardo?s first reaction when he was invited by one of Jehovah?s Witnesses to examine his beliefs. His Latin American background made him wary of anything that smacked of the United States. Nevertheless, his prejudice was broken down by the evidence presented to him. Above all, he was convinced by the practical demonstration of Christianity that he observed among the Witnesses. Their genuine love and faith appealed to him.?See box on page 10.

    After putting aside his early prejudice, Ricardo agreed with another observer, who wrote that Jehovah?s Witnesses "in their organization and witnessing work . . . come as close as any group to approximating the primitive Christian community." He now feels that an open mind is essential in making the best possible choice.

    What Will You Choose?

    Pedro, referred to at the beginning of this article, overcame tradition, fear, and prejudice in order to study the Scriptures for himself. At first he had misgivings because of his disillusionment with religion in general. He explains: "Neither my belief in Maleiwa nor my belief in the god of the Catholics, whose name I didn?t even know, had brought me much happiness." But finally he chose to become one of Jehovah?s Witnesses and was baptized as such at the age of 36. "The love and patience of those who helped me and the satisfying answers I received from the Bible were the deciding factors," he said.

    Will you have the courage to imitate Pedro?s example? Whatever your religion may be, do not leave it to chance. Prove to yourself, using God?s Word, what is the truth, the unique and precious truth that Jesus taught. Jehovah?s Witnesses will be happy to offer their assistance. They sincerely invite you to heed Joshua?s words: ?Choose for yourself whom you will serve.??Joshua 24:15.

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    Jehovah?s Witnesses?An "American Religion"?

    MANY nationalistic people have a suspicion or fear of anything considered foreign or alien. This even colors their view of other religions.

    Jehovah?s Witnesses are often victims of this mentality, accused of being an American religion, "Made in U.S.A.," and thus worthy of rejection on that basis. Is that a reasonable reaction?

    What Are the Facts?

    1. There are proportionately more Witnesses in Canada, Costa Rica, Finland, Jamaica, Puerto Rico, and Zambia, as well as in other lands, than there are in the United States.

    2. Jehovah?s Witnesses are more than international. They are supranational, that is, transcending narrow national boundaries or racial interests. Noteworthy is the great success Jehovah?s Witnesses have had in overcoming racial, tribal, and national prejudice. Such is the case in South Africa, Israel, Lebanon, Northern Ireland, and other countries troubled by religious unrest. Blacks and whites, Jews and Arabs, former Catholics and Protestants, all now Jehovah?s Witnesses, work and worship together at their conventions and Kingdom Halls.

    3. They print their Bible literature in some 200 languages. For example, The Watchtower is published in 103 languages and Awake! in 54, with a total combined monthly printing of over 48 million copies.

    4. Although Jehovah?s Witnesses have their world headquarters in New York, only 23 percent of their number are in the United States.

    5. Just as Jerusalem was a convenient springboard for early Christianity, so in this age of world wars and conflicts, the United States has been the most convenient springboard for preaching the good news in all the world. Experience has shown that anywhere else the work would have been stifled by prejudice, prohibitions, or shortages of raw materials. But having their headquarters in New York does not mean that the Witnesses are an "American religion," any more than the early Christians were a Jewish religion, although branded as such.

    Unjust Persecution

    One fact that clearly demonstrates their supranational outlook is the way they have been labeled by different political regimes. In the past, they have been accused of being communists in the United States and CIA agents in communist countries!

    In the 1950?s, for example, one U.S. newspaper article read: "Pole Reds Finance ?Jehovah? Agents." Another report from a U.S. radio station said: "The Soviet satellite [Polish] government encourages and financially aids the Witnesses." In Ireland, Witnesses faced taunts by violent mobs: "Communists!" "Get out of here!"

    Meanwhile, the Witnesses were outlawed in Poland and other communist countries, and many were imprisoned for their beliefs. Some were even accused of belonging to a spy ring sponsored by the CIA. Their situation in the Soviet Union is described as follows by Vladimir Bukovsky, who immigrated to the West in 1976: "One evening in London, I happened to notice a plaque on a building that read: JEHOVAH?S WITNESSES. . . . I was stupefied, almost to the point of panic. How could that be? I said to myself. In the U.S.S.R., you meet flesh-and-blood ?Witnesses? only in prisons and concentration camps. Could anyone actually go in and have a cup of tea with them? My comparison may be a little out of place, but imagine for a moment that you come across a building bearing a plaque that says COSA NOSTRA LTD., MAFIA GENERAL STAFF. The ?Witnesses? are pursued in our country with as much fury as the Mafia in theirs."

    These brief examples demonstrate what many unbiased observers already recognize?namely, that Jehovah?s Witnesses dissociate themselves from any nationalistic or political leanings. Their faith is supranational because they wish to imitate their impartial God.?Acts 10:34.

    [Picture on page 8]

    Would you take the first medication you could reach, without reading the label?

    [Pictures on page 9]

    Were you born into your religion, or did you choose it?

  • Alleymom
    Alleymom

    Zugzwang --

    I hope you and your mom can have a heart-to-heart talk soon!

    (And I wanted to say that I hope you don't mind I posted the articles for 4JWY here. )

    Best wishes,
    Marjorie

  • sandy
    sandy

    4JWY: Great Letter. I appreciate you and others posting your letters to family.

    I am working on my letter to my older sister.

    When I told her I was no longer going to be a witness she cried and pleaded with me. It was so sad because I love her dearly.

    She started in on me that "the world has nothing to offer", "look at all the other religions out there, they don't have the truth"
    I am sure your mom has said these things to you as well.

    I told my sister we were born into this religion, we had no choice. Everything we know about other religions is either fed to us through WT literature or the headline news.

    Then she started telling me how all worldly people are "bad and sick". I said that is not true. There are good, descent people out there who have love for their family and all humanity. Yes there are bad people out there and there are bad people in the "truth" too.

    I mentioned the child abuse problems which she can not deny because it is a issue that hits close to home with my family.

    She did refute the UN cover-up saying it has to be apostates running the site. She never saw the site.


    Good luck 4JWY! I hope you do get through to your mom and find some family peace even if she doesn't leave the org.

  • tyler m
    tyler m
    You just don't get it. IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU!

    That is what I told my parents when I would get those letters. In them it would be about all my "sins" and how I let them down. That I could not be happy unless I had jehovah in my life. I told them to really think about what they just told me How could they know what would make me happy if they did not even talk to me? Finally when I told them I no longer believed they quit sending the letters trying to get me to come back. Now when they write they find other stuff to bitch about.

  • 4JWY
    4JWY

    Alleymom ~

    Thanks very much

    I feel these articles can be a great help to anyone trying to explain to JW PARENTS particularly, that their choice is legitimately their own to make.

    "Prejudice against anything 'foreign' can also hinder those who wish to make an impartial examination."

    ie: ALLOW yourself to open your eyes to the things I'm showing you mom, please.

    Zugz -

    You sound like a wonderful son and it's obvious you love your mom. A son one can be proud of - using his own brain.

    sandy - I know you meant to address your thoughts to zugz

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