My dear troubled: WELCOME
I'm so glad you found us. Many here have already given you such great thoughts that come from the heart...I can attest to that. You join many of us who have gone, or are going, through the same turmoil and sad to say, the one source we should be getting comfort and help from is sadly lacking in that category.
They (the spiritual leaders) lack both the expertise and the time to deal with this issue of depression, and the members of the congs. also are bombarded with WTS-enforced duties that leave them without the time to give you, or even to think about how to help anyone in your situation. (Many of them are likely fighting the same feelings and hiding them inside too)
But PLEASE, be assured you are not alone when you said:
What scares me the most is this: what if I find out that the Truth, this foundation I've built my last 15 years on, isn't what I thought it was? My whole life would be uprooted. I don't know if I could handle that, or where would I go from there.
I was scared too...many of us were, and yes you will find out that the "truth" is not the truth. I felt my whole foundation crumble as I found out provable facts, not lies, about the false teachings we were lead to believe came from God.
I cried, paced, got angry and then cried somemore, but I've been getting stronger each day I come here (which is daily) because now I feel relieved to know the real truth and I'm still learning. It's invigorating, and now I feel spurred on the see the WTS feel the effects of the exposure of their skeletons. Yes, there are many skeletons and I can assure you, you will feel liberated after the initial shock of finding out how much you didn't know about "our precious, one and only true religion".
But please, please don't protect that which is adding to, if not causing, the biggest part of your depression. The WTS has to stand on its own 2 feet and take their lumps for their negligence in "caring for God's possessions". A trained therapist will help you work through what is troubling you but can't do a complete job if you hold back info on the whole picture...and the WTS probably is the biggest part of that picture.
You also said:
Sometimes, I wish I had never become depressed. Life was simpler then, black and white. I never really got upset, and nothing ever bothered me. At least, it didn't seem to. But maybe I wasn't living in reality.
You've hit the nail on the head with your last sentence.
Ignoring reality doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
Please email me too if you so wish...I've been helped, encouraged, strengthened by, and have felt more love from many here.
The very fact that so many come here after they have left the org and stay on, when they could be doing other things with their lives and their time, says alot about what kind of people are here...people that have been where you are now, and have a deep desire to help you and others feel better.
You will feel better too!
I call myself "Had Enough' for obvious reasons. I simply couldn't take it anymore.