Oh yeah get CoC ASAP! It will OPEN your eyes about a LOT!
i get Df'D today
To the real world, you being DF'd means absolutley sod all! The only real problem is your family 'having to' shun you. But hopefully they will realise what stupidity this is, and without any real substance....after all, blood is thicker than water....and they may gradually see the pointlessness of such actions.
Keep cool, be you...and you're happiness at being free will be seen by all!